I've been a long time lurker, not much of a poster. I'm a 19 year old college student, that is working on my game every day. Long story short, I have very little experience kissing women. I have only kissed 2 times before, and both times I was told I wasn't good.

So right now, I've been talking to this 9/10 Romanian girl for about 2 weeks now. (I'm actually proud of myself because she gave me the initial "i have a bf" shit test, of which I got through" Anyways, she's really into me, and shes expressed that she starting to like me more than a friend. We've hung out 2 times during the day, things really going well.

Well, last night while i was on the phone with her she asked me when am I going to kiss her? And i told her "if i was there I would give her a sweet kiss right now" and she goes "awww and all that". And she tells me how a guy being a good kisser is really important to her. The truth of the matter is I KNOW shes expecting a kiss the next time we meet and quite frankley i'm scared shitless.

Do you guys think I should tell her i'm not a good kisser, or read some stupid shit on how to be a better kisser? The main thing is that i'm worried if I fuck this kissing shit up i'll lose her.

Whats up Stang101 aka the Lurker?

Good to see you out of the shell(lol).

Sound like you're having a very smooth seduction with that Romanian chicc.

She admits liking you more than friends,etc.

Wow,I dont see where you can go wrong.

Now,kissing.

Well,I dont see anything wrong with googling,"how to kiss".

Now should you tell her you cannot kiss?

Do tell her,but make it some-what of a challenge.

Play with it some.Tell her that you cant kiss(a false-disqualifier).

Give her the task and challenge of teaching you.

Thats it.

Even if I were the best kisser,I'd still challenge the target by saying,"I dont know how to kiss.You should show me".

With the truth being said,or false-disqulifying yourself,you have no reason to be feeling anxiety.

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thanks, yea thats what I was thinking too. I told her for shit and giggles "im gonna mess up on purpose and make you teach me what you like." But anyways, i'll report back when I see her next friday.

be yourself man!

let her lead you...