Ok, I'm in need of advice. I've met this girl online dating who is smart, strong, independent, has a lot of pride in the ways she walks, and is very comfortable in her own skin. I would say she is a 4.5 and I'm about a 6. We have been on one meet, 1 dinner out together and I'm finding it a challenge to even begin to seduce her; because she won't drink and she doesnt like to cuddle up to watch movies. This women is patient in getting to know me.

I had to take a break for a moment; because she just called me now. LOL!

I need some advice and idea's. How do I get closer to be intimate with her?

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For some men sex is a source of great power. They need it and when they don't have it they become weak. Look at what happened to Tiger's game when the 3somes stopped.

Alright, I won't judge you, I'll just give you what you want. The answer is KINO. Kino works because a girl doesn't immediately associate it with sex, like cuddling, so it won't activate ASD. There are a hundreds of ways to kino, hundreds of routines. I like the claw, it always tells me what I need to know.

But anyway, do me a favor. Is sex or a relationship with this girl going to make you feel like more than a 6? If you keep settling for low quality girls, you will always be low quality. I've cracked women just because my pride told me they should be easy prey; I wasn't even interested. It made me feel good and confident in my skills right afterward, but days later I felt shitty for taking down a girl that wasn't even in my league. I liked the challenge, not the girl. It sounds like you have oneitis, is there not anything else going on dating-wise?

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31 and still figuring it out.

Let me start by saying, I'm recently single and making an effort to improving my game. I have 4 girls as casuals (averaging 5) that are keeping me partially satisfied which is a necessity for me. Recently, I've endured a minor transformation and it shows. Women don't cross to the other side of the street anymore. LOL! Good looking women are checking me out now. I have the confidence to date better looking women. I can approach 7s, 8s in person and are rejecting not so good others(this is fairly new to me). Unfortunately, my skills are erratic, but improving. In the past, I've felt the after effect of the ugly chick. This one I respect though. She's smart, very successful and confident despite her feature. Maybe you are right, that "I like the challenge and not the girl." I will find out about this. Overall, things are changing for the better quickly. Thanks for the Kino advice and I appreciate not getting flammed.

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For some men sex is a source of great power. They need it and when they don't have it they become weak. Look at what happened to Tiger's game when the 3somes stopped.