Hey

First time posting here, just had a quick question, I'm in university and was just wondering the best way to approach club game? I go to clubs alot and just wanted to know the best way to get girls at clubs. Do you wonder the dance floor solo? With a friend? Do you ask only girls who are alone to dance or can you go up to a group and ask just one of them to dance? Should you buy girls drinks? Is it good to hang out by the bar? I usually find that if a girl is not alone and is with either another girl or a group and you go up and ask her to dance she usually won't be cause she doesn't wanna leave her friend alone. That's why it's sometimes good to bring a wingman so at least there's two of you but what if you don't have a wingman whose at your level? Anyways, for those who have perfected the club game, what's the trick?

I myself love going to clubs and bars and prefer night game to day game! I also remember the days of Uni and wish I had taken advantage more!

First thing I would say to remember is have fun! Seriously don't take yourself or the game to seriously.. enjoy your friends company, have a laugh and smile and show that your having a good time! Girls will see and feel that you are a positive and fun guy!

When it comes to dancing don't hang around the dance floor staring at the girls like many men do because its creepy and it shows that you aren't fun your just there to go and try and perve on girls. Go and dance, get in the middle of the dancefloor and enjoy the music and the girls will flock to you. Trust me... you will notice girls edging towards you because they want attention and they want to dance with guys.

Hanging around at the bar is ok but you will notice most girls will go get a drink and then straight back to the dancefloor.. so what I would say is go to the bar when you want a drink and if a girl is next to you just strike up conversation.. one of my favourites is when I see one of these strange bright coloured cocktails girls get is I ask them what it is and joke it looks like petrol or something. Most of the time the girls will offer me their straw and I will take a sip and joke around that its a girly drink and they should drink beer blah blah. Then just add some kino and when you end up on the dancefloor and they are there you will most likely be able to go in and dance with them alot easier!

I wouldn't buy a girl a drink unless your on very good terms with her.. girls expect guys to buy them drinks and when i guy doesn't offer they wonder what they are doing wrong and then start to try and impress more!

This isn't really techniques or advice on opening but hopefully it will help with the image your portraying

I'm learning still as well and will be out clubbing tonight.. lets see if I follow my own advice ha!

I use this:
Dance behind a girl and touch her and ask: can I dance with you for 1 min?
Hopefully she will say "Oke", after 1min. you tell her the time is up and you go!
When you go; give her a little push forward!At that point she will be in a embarassing position..(Omg I got pushed away everybody seen it and it was a nice boy what do I do nowww ...)

1.She can choose to talk to her friends and tell what happend.
2.She wants you back and want to talk to you.

If she takes option 1 go back and dance near her she will open you.
If she takes option 2 you can start with your other routines!

Cheers,

Anders

thanks for the advice, I'll keep all that in mind this weekend lol
any other advice

More of a personal experience than an advice but..

I noticed that it's always a good idea to bring a wingman or a buddy. Its a rare sight to see a girl dancing alone. But in my case when im alone, i pretend that im still with my buddy. When a pair of girls asked for some reason, tell them your buddy is in the restroom. Then if you manage to breakdown their barrier i make sure i entertain both girls. Like everyone else said, you must have a fun & positive attitude/aura/mood etc. girls will notice that quick!

I always make sure i have a drink in my left hand and raise up my other hand going to the beat of the music before i approach the girls and ive gotten positive response with this style. Also, i like to whisper at girls ears while my other hand softly grab their backside/waistline when i asked or comment on something.

Heres a quick story:

I went clubbing at hollywood last weekend. Saw a pair of 7s dancing, i approached AFC style and asked them if they would like to dance with me. But i whispered in their ears and gotten really close. Both nicely rejected me coz obviously she didn't want to leave her friend alone, so i told them i can take on both of them! (they just laugh at me). I then said my goodbye still whispering in their ears and shook their hands with a big smile in my face. Behold, one of the girls didn't let go of my hands and started dancing and grinding me!

Hey there. Im working on my club game the following 4 weeks im going out to different bars every friday and saturday. Will post field reports btw.
As for your questions:

Approach : On the dancefloor my opinion is you can make any approach. A girl is dancing and she knows shes in the center, Opening from the front is still preffered though.

Solo or Together : Together is allways best for social proof. Make sure that your friend doesnt follow you around all the time though. You dont want those AFC's to destroy your game without them even knowing.

Dance : Works the same as any aproach. Only i preffer eye contact before aproaching on the dancefloor. So better do some stuff to get noticed and be sure to laugh a lot. When you want to dance with a girl what i like to do is just walk up to her and say lets dance some before i buy a drink! She will usually look weird at you first so you have to start it. She will think its ok and will join you. When you go get a drink if she follows they expect you to buy them a drink. Dont do this and act suprised if she stands behind you. From there its all talking.

Buy Drinks : If they ask just return the question into something funny like: I got no cash im a hobo, why dont you buy me a drink. Say this with a huge cocky-funny smile ofc. If she has bought you a drink later you can return the favor cause she has put herself on a submissive status by buying your drink first.
Nothing of the above happens? NEVER buy her a drink.

At the bar : My favourite place. But thats just me. I'm a talking person who just love the techniques of the game. Dont hang around the bar all night though cause you cant approach while just sitting.

When shes with friends : If they stand at the side talking just open on the group. Just as in the style of the book The Game. Ignore her and maybe neg her a bit. Demonstrate value and then you can tell her you can do some more fun things with her. If they are on the dancefloor it will be allright anyway. Wingman would be nice here anyway.

If you dont have a wingman find one. Today i introduced a friend of mine to the game. Hes on a holiday now though and he will read the game and rules of the game. And a dutch book called masterflirt. After he did that ill go sarging with him a lot. We allready make a good team even when we knew nothing of pickup.


I hope this helps.
Im more into day game and im gonno work 4 weeks on improving club game.

Good luck!

Aight cruise with a wing, preferably a chick, but a guy will do.
If you are flying solo, remember to open every set you see as soon as you can. You don't want to be seen by everyone as the guy who is alone on the dance floor. Vibe with everyone and make it seem like you're friends with all of them. Make it seem like you own the club.
Don't buy girls drinks. If anything, you want them buying you the drink. You're supposed to be a person of higher status and you want her to feel like she has to earn you hanging with her for the night.
Don't ask girls to dance with you. For example, "Hey do you want to dance for a minute?" or "Can I dance with you?" You'll just come across as a pansy. A man doesn't ask for anything, he takes what he wants.
It's easy to approach groups just open the set with some dance moves and dance with them for a little while before you attempt to get to grinding with your target.
As far as approaching girls who are alone on the dance floor, when do you ever see a girl alone on the dance floor? You're gonna have to get used to opening sets with multiple people in them.

Randomly, great advice and i agree to make eye contact and approached from the front.

Ive asked my female friends (and even random girls) that it's creepy and their digusted whenever a guy approached or dance/grind behind them without their consent. But ofcourse each girls have their own preference.

Heres another quick story/situation:

Same night in the club as my previous post. Got my buddy to help me out to dance with a group of 4, theyre asians if it matters (i am aswell but my buddy isn't). Normally asian girls here in LA always have their sheild in full strength. I noticed they've created a small circle enough for a person to show off their moves. I didn't see any of them stepped up or someone trying to dance with them use that space. So what did i do? I said to myself F this i'm stepping up. I went up in that circle space and started shaking my ass randomly. All four girls and even my buddy was laughing their ass off. My buddy and i was able to dance with that group for awhile until i made a big mistake and kissed one of the better looking girl's hand.... Her body language immediately went from hot to cold in matter of secs. I think i went ahead of myself too quick, I will learn from this mistake for sure.

OP, Try and get notice & grab girls attention using the advice/tips from here!

Yeah. I dont like kissing hands anyway tbh. Its not dominant or flirty. Just submissive and if you wanna do this you gotto isolate first anyway cause their girlfriends will give non verbal advice behind your back most likely.

And thanks for the compliment