Hey all. Need some help here. I went on a date with a gorgeous HB8 last night that I met on OKCupid. It went really well. So well in fact that I am wondering if it went too well.

Anyway. I was pretty heavy on the C&F all night and I was throwing negs liberally. We were drinking martinis and I had her laughing all night. She kept saying things like “I cant decide if I like you or not, you’re so mean but I love it,” and “It’s so nice to find a guy that will give me a little shit.” Etc.

So, it’s getting late and I say to her “So, you know that is the last drink that I am buying you right?” She gets pissed and gives me some lines about how I must be cheap. So I respond “I am just sick of having girls get drunk on my dime, you are a progressive woman and have gotten 3 drinks out of me.” She replies “I was about to offer to buy my own drinks actually.” We settle into our rhythm again. She asks me to buy her one more drink. I tell her that I will if she comes over and gives me a big kiss. She walks over and practically devours my head. At this point we are talking about how many men she has slept with, her tits, and what she likes in bed. I offer to drive her home and she tells me that she is meeting some friends and asks me to drop her at a bar. The entire ride she has her hands in my hair and is telling me things like “You are such a jerk but that’s so sexy!” I play along and stop at the bar. We make out for a minute and she gets out of my car but not before she wiggles her ass in my face. Naturally I give it a little slap.

So…the only thing that I am worried about is that she is throwing me false IOIs to get me back for the drink comment. My question is when should I get back in touch with her. Should I go back to the text game for a few days to keep her invested or do I freeze her out for a few days to build tension? My instinct is to freeze out. That way if she was throwing false IOIs I don’t appear to be desperate and I am not getting sucked into her frame. We both mentioned a movie that we were both looking forward to. I figure I wait 4 days until the reviews come out, text her about it and call her later in the week to set up a second date. Based on date one I am almost sure that date two will lead to an FClose. Thoughts are appreciated.