Hi Guys

Last week I met a girl at the new gym I signed up to, and it was obvious from the get go she was attracted to me (she was trying to pick me up and gave me her phone number). Im 36 and she is 21 and I really want to bed her, but I dont want to fuck it up. She couldnt give a shit about the age gap but I want to make sure I stay "alpha" therefore take the lead on where we go, meet up etc, but I dont want to make it somewhere lame, so I was wanting to get some suggestions from guys who have had similar age gaps in relaionships. Ive never been in a relationship with an age gap this big before so this is new for me. She doesnt seem the type to go out much so that has made things more difficult to see where I could take her. She also still lives with her parents and goes to church a few times a month

any suggestions?

cheers

The age gap kinda makes me sick dude

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hmmm most guys ive spoken to said id be stupid not to do it, and would do the same.

there are FAR larger age gaps out there than this one. Just have a look at some of the cougers out there and (god forbid) Hugh Hefner

havent made up my mind though, but it could be a big regret down the line

Cool man, nice to meet another dude around my age on this forum. Dude, there is absolutely nothing wrong with hooking up with women much younger than you. Biologically, it's totally natural for men of all ages to seek out young women who are at the prime of their capability to reproduce offspring. Young women also seek out older men for their good temperment and financial stability. In essence, you are the man for having scored this nice young piece of ass.

The next question I would have is are you looking to get into a relationship or do you just want to f-cloze her? Maybe if you could answer that I could offer up some suggestions on where to take this girl. Depending on your answer my suggestions would be different--that's why I'm asking.

CLozer

Hi Clozer

Thanks for the positive comments. Basically I want her as a f**k buddy, not really intersted in a relationship with this girl, but Im worried she might be. I need to tread carefully i think.....

The age difference is acceptable so I wouldn't worry about that!

I'm 22 and it wouldn't freak me out if i got with woman who was 36!

Is he forcing her? Isnt she legal age? She knows whats she is doing right?
So.. whats the problem?

Sry man, the problem is just in you

My question to you is, if the situation was reversed, for instance if he was the 21 and she was a 36year old smoking hot hb10 would you still think its wrong for him to sleep with her ??? and can you honestly say you wouldent sleep with her if you where in his position ???

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hehe, thanks guys. Had first date with her a few nights ago and lets just say she definately knew what she was doing

lol

Props man.

Big props!

Scamp

Good for you brother. Tap that and dont look back. When I was a young man of 23 I banged this hot 42 year old cougar and it made me a better lover for every woman after her! Age is just a number, as long as it's legal and consentual.

My experience with younger girls is that they may vary a lot in maturity. This is, as far as I'm concerned, the only problem when it comes to seduction. If she turns out to know where she stands in life, what she wants and what she's doing with you, seducing her is just as fine as it would be to seduce someone your own age with the same stance to life.

When it comes to LTRs, there may be an additional problem - she may be about to change a lot over the next few years. That makes any LTR a risky adventure. However, this is not to say that going for a LTR with a much younger girl is wrong, only that you should be ready for it not to last forever.

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this is only a short term thing. We both agreed that this wont be serious, but we will still hang out and be friends, especially at the gym. We are going to work out together on occassions as well and i may even try her out as a wingman, but ill have to see what she says.

I have no desire to have a relationship with a girl who is less than 25 years old, but girls who are 18+ are fair game for just sex as far as im concerned

Being a few years younger (I'm 28 ), I'd say about the same thing, except my threshold is probably somewhere around 23. However, my point is that such thresholds should not be too rigorously implemented, as age is nothing but a number which may serve as a first estimate of her likelihood of being mature enough.

I once dated a 23-year old, but had to end it because I thought she was too young. Now, I'm dating a 20-year old, and that works out so much better. It's really not about age at all.

So, are you still sleeping with this girl, or have you decided to be just friends?

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we agreed to just be fuck buddy's, but i think she wants to be more serious.

Yeah age is definately a personal thing, I find younger girls much more appealing now that im older, just because there is far less "baggage" to deal with, as opposed to women 30+.

But bottom line is, if i find a girl who is at least HB7 or more, id want to bed her, regardless of age. (ofcouse of legal age)