Background story made easy: So she and I are attending the same summer program and we both live in the dorm. We've been knowing each other for about at least 3 weeks now. I have lots of social proof at this place since almost everyone knows and likes me. We have run together once before. Yesterday night she was going running while I was partying with my friends drinking and celebrating my friend's 21st bday. Here are the texts:

Mon 10:39PM Her: I'm coming over
10:43PM Me: ?? Haha, are u drunk?

Supposedly, she wanted to come to my room to chat with me after her running. But I wasn't in my room and she made it vague in her 1st text so I thought she was gonna come to the party that I was in.

10:45PM Her: Lol no RUDE ASS
10:47PM Me: U coming over to where? U're not making any sense, haha, lamey hawt (her nickname because she likes this phrase "That's hot")
11:14PM Her: Dood I'm at ur apt where r u
11:16PM Me: U saw where I was going, dork! Don't play goofy here

When she texted this, she had seen me coming to my friend's party but I don't know why she still pretended that she doesn't know where I was

11:18PM Her: Loser
11:20PM Me: Don't hate, hawt! And be respectful to ur coach B) (This is a reference to one of the earlier acts when we were running together, I was pretty much training her)
11:22PM Her: You're RETARD. K thnx
11:25PM Me: Forget to mention that I whip my female friends for rude misbehaviour, including cowgirls (she's from Texas)
11:29PM Her: Ha you're a joke
11:50PM Me: Where are u? U prob ran away. My whip is ready, just need a victim now!
11:54PM Her: That's disgusting. And RUDE.
11:59PM Me: Whatever, u're so weird! Convo is over. It's bday time, stop being a kid already, *her name*!

Sorry for the long post, but after reading this, I want your guys' opinions. Did I do something wrong in my texting here? She put CAPS sometimes so I'm not sure whether she was serious or not. Besides, I think she might have misunderstood my jokes about "whipping." She probably thought about it in a very sexual way, I only intended it to be mildly suggestive. Thanks guys!

P.S. I haven't talked to her since Monday night because I'm still thinking what I should do next.

I loved it, found it really funny... hmm maybe bust her on not being able to have a joke? or text back -

"im still waiting for my apology"

Im not sure though lol, i cant tell if she knew you were joking or if she is joking

you were funny, she clearly cant take a joke and she sounds like a goofy chick to begin with, probably not worth the hassle.

great job calling her on it too and ending the convo.

the only thing i can think of is she was coming over to suck your dick and was mad that you weren't there. lol you showed a lil more interest in the party(rightfully so it WAS ur birfday, BUT you could of invited her to join you after she said she was at ur room). nothing wrong with u though dude

Holsetymoon, listen carefully here YOU HAVE ALL THE POWER RIGHT NOW.

She came over even though you at no point said that that was kool. If you did this to her she would most likely be freaked out.

you did great up until

11:22PM Her: You're RETARD. K thnx
11:25PM Me: Forget to mention that I whip my female friends for rude misbehaviour, including cowgirls (she's from Texas)
11:29PM Her: Ha you're a joke

Where I would have said something like.

"Okay. Im at xxxx. you can come and we can party but only if you forget about what just happened and come and have a good time. That is the deal. Otherwise, stop being a kid already, *her name*! "


Don not text her back first what ever you do. She should start to miss you after a few days max and send you something like;

"Hey. How are you"

you then say

"Im good, as always. You still throwing your toys out the pram? (or something that you would say to the same effect)"

That should sort things out. Trust me Ive been their done that.





Im my personal opinion though she sounds like a bunny boiler. I would get well shot of her mate.

Bourbon

This guy ^ knows what's up. Took the whipping thing too far. She was being a bitch because you disappointed her by not being available. Don't let her turn it on you and make you feel guilty. Who the fuck goes to someone's place without permission anyway, that is socially retarded. You need to discipline this girl for sure, but no more whip, it is creepy, and NEVER EVER call a girl a victim again.

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