I was wondering how many messages you guys get from women you haven't opened?

I've played with POF and OkCupid in the past, and never got many messages unless I initiated contact. I thought this may have been because I was living in an area without many people, but now that I live in NYC, I'm disappointed.

I don't mind doing the work, I just want to make sure my profile is appealing enough.

I'm getting an average of 5 women opening me per week. How's that sound?

I get about two a week, so that sounds pretty good for you!

I always find it's always possible to improve on ones profile, whats yours?

I live in Switzerland and as its so small and the lack of English speakers here is terminal - I got contacted only 4 times in 1 year! I only met 1 of them and it took us about 4 months to meet - a real let down. Nice woman but too frumpy. Imagine a female version of AFC.

My profile definitely can be approved. I don't want to post it here, because I don't want any women linking me to pua stuff. I focused on accomplishments/being motivated. The line that stood out was "My life is amazing right now, the only thing that could make it better would be an amazing women." I also tried to show that I'm fun, by talking passionately about music/dancing. I really didn't describe much detail about myself. I think whats missing is witty/funny content. I have some good pics up, but I dont think the profile is very impressive.


That sucks! But then again, you're a lucky guy getting to live around all those swiss chicks, I can't feel that bad for you

i'm around 4-5 a week. Maybe only 1 HB7 or above though out of those 5