Long story short i went to this local bar yesterday to watch some sports and there was a cute 8.5 blondie bartender. She is 30 im 26. We get to talking and shes moving way up north for grad school in 40 days. I DHV by talking about my grad school prgm i am about half way through. Commonality

I started getting little tipsy because of all the shots we were having and eventually started asking if she wanted to be my girlfriend for the next 2 hours lol. And some comment about her dating younger guys. The gf thing was a joke but she was receptive to the younger guy comment and complied and said she was single.

So i ask for her # and she gives it to me. Then these dudes who are like 50 (3 of them) are trying to bust my balls. They were making a scene about it and telling me i have no chance and all this stuff. They are regulars/AFCs and do shit like help her move lol. It got a little embarrassing from the stuff they were saying loud enough for her to hear, but im trying not to let it phase me. I made some comment to her when i was leaving about those guys ruining my game but she said they didnt, and to call her

I think ive got a shot here if i play it right for the day2. Any suggestions for arranging a day 2 w a hot bartender!?..


PS I Got 5 #s last week ive been trying to step it up gradually.

Nothing?

You let some 50 year old chodes tell you that you dont have a chance?....


Wait.... One more time... You let some old wrinkle dick fucks amog you? C'mon man, after that she probably thinks ur a lil kid haha just dont order a shirley temple next time you go in hahaha okay now seriously on some real shit.... I would start texting her... You need to recover before you can go strait into a date with her. BUT if you feel like she's ready just wait til she gets off and invite her to go have a drink with you. You have no idea how many bartenders just wanna have a drink after a shift.

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Ha hey dude i enjoy the shit talking

I did not get amoged though by any means or let anything slide. They were just trying to cockblock and i was shutting them down. These 3 dudes seemed like her little fan club that come in specifically for her shift and they have all been LJBFed lol. They are all 20 yrs older than her, divorced, take her to dinners and help her move and all this crap and all whine about getting nothing back but a hug. One dude warned me i was messing with his girl lol. I ended up carrying him to a taxi because bartender girl was doing so many shots with us.

Anyway my point is im half their age and i was running game on "their girl" right infront of them including the # close. I made it obvious i was not interested in JBF before the # close. I am happy with how that night ended but now im more concerned about how to handle it from here. And i like the advice about taking her after the shift i just am afraid of acting like the fan club. Know what i mean?

haha yea i feel ya man, i was just messin around. tha only reason i said that was cuz i was out with a few friends n they're all around 23 or 24 n i'm 20. I was gaming our waitress but when she found out my age she brought me a roy rogers in a kids cup lol i digress, but my advice would be to go in with friends cuz the "lonely hearts club" are just a bunch of creepy old guys that come in alone so basically they're losers. Just say you guys were in the area and needed a drink (free drinks!) before the night out n then just have her meet u guys when she's off.

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