Yeah, but if you have low confidence, you're not going to hear it, no matter how many times EVERY girl you dated tells you. I know from experience. And besides that might give you an ego boost the first few times a girl tells you how sexy you are, but it loses meaning pretty quickly and you just start taking it for granted.

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31 and still figuring it out.

Looks do matter to a girl.

Not as much as your own confidence. What matters to a woman is you do the best with what you were given.

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31 and still figuring it out.

holy shit this is so beta i cannot believe it. do you really let people affect your opinions of yourself?!!!? Do you really need validation from other people to think you are an attractive person??!!?? I think i am the sexiest motherfucker on this planet, does everybody else think that? Probably not but i dont give a shit, negative mindsets of thinking im ugly dont get me anywhere positive, so i dont even waste my time and energy thinking them and thinking positive like this always keeps a smile on my face which gets me way closer to getting pussy than your negative external validation mindsets do. Peace out though. Nuthin But Love

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Like a knife into flesh
After life is to death
Pulling and punching the rest of duration
No one can piss on this determination

We are all lucky to be men.

For women , the personality of a man, the way he carries himself around others, his humor,his optimism, and lifestyle which are reflected on his body language, smile and voice tonality, are far more important than looks.

In our case looks are more important than most other things.

I sometimes feel bad for ugly chicks, but also lucky to be man and know the PUA stuff.

side note: I have realised recently that men looks are actually more important for ugly chicks than for hot babes, for example , singers famous for their looks rather than their talent have mostly ugly/fatty fans as you can see in their concerts/fan pages, while hotter women tend to admire men more for persoanl traits.

The beauty of the game is that for women, there are certain physical traits that attract all men (busty, cute face,ass,etc), but in men, it's only about you looking the best that you can look, and not what Abercrombie chocolate boys look like. Be clean cut, dress up well, get a proper hairstyle, wear a few unique pieces of jewelry, and any man can look good.

That is why a fat guy has a better chance of hooking up with a hot girl, while a fat girl has no chance of hooking up at all (ok,maybe not that bad..).

About to post some pictures on there now....

I know some looks appeal to different women but still. How do I check to see what my rating is a couple weeks from now?

Go to "Your Dashboard" and then click "Your Photos and Rating" on the left hand column.

this isn't exactly the best place to post this, but whatever. I'm looking for suggestions if anyone wants to help. Looks-wise i'm objectively a 9 or a 10. When I go out to bars, i usually do better with 9s and above than with 8s. Which wouldn't be a problem, except sometimes i'm winging my friends or there aren't any 9s and 10s in the bar. I'm trying to figure out if I over qualify myself or if I come off as a player or what. Its a little bit like when guys assume a girl is a bitch just because shes a 10 Any thoughts or suggestions on how to fix this problem. I'm not trying to be braggy, just looking for honest advice.

Oh, and this is how you know your good looking: When drunk girls gush about how hot you are the second after you introduce yourself. But as a guy whos been there, good game gets you hot chicks much more consistently then looks does.

[quote="XxBAMFxX"]Attraction is determined mostly by how you make a woman feel, but if you have been blessed with good looks, you have a slight head start compared to other males.
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A slight head start? With quite a lot of girls it gives you alot more then that. If you are just after sex then it helps a hell of alot. in fact a lot of them will have sex with a guy just on looks.

How does a guy become hot then? Hot enough to turn heads and be opened by girls

The most noticeable things for a guy to be 'hot' I think are:

1) Hit the gym
2) GOOD hairstyle
3) Great fashion sense (especially shoes..)

I've never really had any self confidence in my appearance in the past, but I'm currently scoring 9.8, so I'm taking that as a good sign!

I'm really against it. What does it matter how people think you look?
Will knowing that improve your gaming?

If you'll ask me, the only thing it can do is lower your self esteem in a case of low results from girls.

If you want to talk about dressing or style, that's a different story. These stuff also have to do with looks, and they CAN be changed.

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http://MasterOnlineDating.com?ref=puaf1
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This has some partial truth to it, but it depends on the person. For many guys, low results would motivate them to work harder on their game.