Too many men are more dedicated to changing themselves rather than understanding women. That's not natural at all.

Peace and Love.

not really when some get into pua they get into improving themselves to impress women then after a while they like the self improvement--whether its fitness, sport, reading,learning to play giuitar etc in its own right and the enjoyment of these hobbies increases the guys own self worth and personal dignity--the impressing women motivation part drops into second place and sometimes he loves his new hobbies so much he doesnt care whether it impresses women or not

Fair enough. I dig the self-improvement part, I really do, just not the reinovation stuff.

Well a natural doesnt understand women, his Social circle and life style is designed somewhat by accident, e.g. a Natural freind of mine doesnt understand women, i understand women, attraction ect far better than him, yet he was sleeping with women when he was 15....

I used to not dress very well, i wasnt very confident in some areas of my life, i didnt present myself very well, in a way i have reinvented myself, in the way i dress, hair style, the way i come across, i now go to the gym and this has had positive implications on my life as a whole and not just when picking up women.

Coldness, you need to start thinking of "yourself" as a fluid concept that changes based on experiences and knowledge you encounter throughout life. I highly doubt you are the same person today you were even five years ago because events that occur in our lives help to shape our thoughts on them.

People become more "natural" with women when their current beliefs are more in line with their core values. Current beliefs are what a person mistakenly identifies as "themselves" because it is basically who you are on a conscious level. Core values, then, represent the other half of the equation, being who you are on an unconscious level.

An easy way to tell how different your core values are from your current beliefs is to envision the man you wish you were, or to pay attention to qualities you admire in other men. Where these do not match up with qualities you display on a regular basis, you have a schism between core values and current beliefs.

Core values are basically who you WOULD be if an entire lifetime of false limiting beliefs and societally-imposed restrictions had never been piled onto your personality. In that sense, changing in a way that makes you behave more in tune with your core values is not only great for attracting women, it provides the happiness that can only come from being true to oneself.

Give it a shot.

Your boy,
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Ok so you could read every book and study every seminar and apply the knowledge over every interaction you ever had with a women and you truly would understand them.

BUT YOU STILL WOULDNT BE GETTING LAID AFTER ALL!!!

Why are we all here?...... To get laid! Understanding is only the first step.

Mind you I do sorta get your point. I studied the mystery method so thoroughly I knew it back to front. Whent out two weekends in a row and couldnt pull a single girl. Then I watched the double your dating/advanced series and kiss two girls the next time I went out. So yeah understanding is a big key. Though I dont think its the point.

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