Hi everyone. I was thinking of using my first post to release some personal thoughts.
I consider myself a VFC (very frustrated chump) not a an AFC. I'm 20, and I did get with some girls during my teens, having sex with two girls so far which I guess is not too bad. However, I feel a great necessity of improving my love life. My problem was always that I cannot choose a girl and go for her; all the times I got with someone, it was because there was some chemistry between us from the first moment we met (maybe due to the circumstances, genetics, I don't know). In these cases its like my game comes out naturally and I am for some reason good at it, doing some of the stuff advised by PUAs instinctively. This, of course and unfortunately, happens rarely. If this initial bias\chemistry is not there, I just can't turn it around; I can't just decide to seduce a girl I find hot and this is what really frustrates me.

I feel quite powerless over my love life. I know I am not shy, I am able to meet significant numbers of girls; use an opener, go up to them, introduce myself and talk for like 30-60 secs but then I just get stuck most of the times not knowing what else to say and I just don't know what buttons to push.

I have tried to improve my self. I started going to the gym frequently and my body is quite decent looking now. I thought that this would make it all easy, I would just go up to girls in a tight t-shirt, start talking to them and they would be all over me (can you get more naive than that?). Well, it is true that I started getting more compliments from HBs I meet but my pick up capabilities and stats did not improve.

I was then accepted last year in one of the best universities in the world to do one of its most prestigious degrees. Once again being naive I thought "Ha, now the ladies will be all over me". Once again I was wrong and nothing improved in my pick up capability. I'm a nice guy, smart, cult, alright looking; I look good on paper by I just can't play the game with 99.9% of the girls I meet.

I was introduced to the PUA community when I first read "The Game" exactly one year ago. I found it interesting and entertaining and got curious about the whole thing. However at the time I was thinking "I'm going to uni now so I'm definitely going to have lot's of easy sex and picking up, this guy is probably talking bull**** anyway". However, once I got to uni it didn't happen; I would see the naturals getting laid every week. Because a lot of them were my friends I would see them in action. I just couldn't figure out how they were doing it; it's not as if they were very good looking or talking to the girls about issues/topics unknown to me. Some of them just seemed to act like idiots, I thought, swearing at girls or telling them the most incorrect, out of context stories and questions and I would be like "Why are the girls laughing at that?! Why do they like it!? How does he do it?". However, the final drop dropped when I came back to my home town after this unsuccessful year in terms of picking up in UNI (1). Once on summer holidays a few weeks ago I started going out in my home town very frequently, seeing all my old friends and having fun. The thing is, I keep running into chavs/wastemen from my old school or neighbouring schools and SO MANY of them are dating these HB7, 8, 9 or even 10! These are guys who drooped out of school, still live with their parents and have never achieved anything in their lives. Faced with this I've just been thinking "Wtf, I've been misled by society, my parents and Disney. Maybe being the nice and smart guy with a bright future will get you married; but it won't get you laid". This is it, I decided to study how these guys do it. If they can get the girls, then so can I. If I say what they say and in the way they say, if I play their game correctly, I must be able to do it.
And that's how I ended up posting on PUAF at 5 in the morning in a saturday night.

It definitely felt good to write down all these ideas I've been thinking about for some time now. I thought I'd share them because you and others could be feel the same/differently. Add your thougts.
Just to finish, I just started learning about the game so if you read my post, could you tell me your opinion on how to improve my weakspots.