I went out with one of my friends to a restaurant to meet up with a friend of his. His friend brought along an HB 7. The first night seemed to go really well. We got them back to our house and we started drinking. My friend unfortunately got too drunk and bombed horribly.....he's an afc and would take my advice about drinking too much.

Anyway, my roommate accidentally cock blocked me. I wasn't too upset because the night went so well. She gave me IOIs all night long and we ended up cuddling all night. (mainly because my drunk friend passed out next to me with his girl) So we wake up Tuesday morning and lay around the house talking for hours. Then she asks if I want to take her to dinner. I agree and it seems to go well too. My friend tells me she really likes me a lot and has been asking if I'm interested.

Later Tuesday night she starts texting me. We talk for about an hour about random things and she sends me a few pics of herself. We get on the topic of my friend and the girl he bombed with. I think this is a great opportunity to see if she will qualify herself. I asked her what she thinks makes a good girlfriend. She goes into a long description of what makes her a good gf and then says she's tired and has to work in the morning, so we say goodnight.

Yesterday my afc friend, the HB i'm going for and the girl my afc friend bombed with go to a Chinese restaurant, then hit a pet store and play with the dogs, and then get ice cream. She basically doesn't talk to me the entire time. I ignore her somewhat and walk away at the pet store to see if she will come find me. She doesn't. When we get ice cream I decide to call her out on it. I say "wow, this is the quietest I've ever seen you". She responds with "I don't want to talk about it". The whole night her hb friend and her just talk to eachother.

When I get home my afc friend asks me if I really asked her what makes a good girlfriend. I ask him why and he wont elaborate on it. I didn't call her last night. I figured I'd play low key and see if she calls me. So far she hasn't. This one has me confused. Any suggestions?

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the first time I read this I was confused as to why you would ask her what makes a good girlfreind. That was clearly a bad move. I have no experience of saying that to a girl but it clearly doesnt work. Dont know how you can work back from that, just play it cool and be the guy that she liked. Don't be wierd!

Good luck

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From past experiences it makes them qualify themselves. If they say things that they know you like, it shows an IOI. If they blow it off and give a weak answer, then you need more DHV and possible negging.

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ok. I didn't mess up. I guess I just had an AFC moment and panicked. I was so used to her talking to me non stop. Anyway, it could have also been cat and mouse. I didn't talk to her all day yesterday and I only talked to her a few minutes tonight. She was talking about how she was going to red white and boom and I told her I would have went, but I was going to a big party tonight. Then I gracefully told her about a few girls that would be there. After that she started talking to me non stop. Even after I told her I had to go.

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Its not the words you speak, but the conviction of your actions. And with this said know that I am the prize.

What makes a good GIRLFRIEND???

How would she know?

All that matters is YOUR opinion, YOUR beliefs.
If you're interested in buying a purse or a pair of shoes, then ask her about that.
But what makes a good girlfriend is entirely up to you and your beliefs.

Qualifying herself? Dumb. Why? Because she already made it clear she likes (liked?) you.
You like her, she likes you. No need to qualify.

To be honest though. I don't think the "what makes a good girlfriend" should have warranted THAT much of a bad response. Maybe she's just pmsing. Don't assume you've failed. Just try again later.