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PostPosted: Thu Jul 01, 2010 8:38 am 
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So here is my issue, most dancefloor game is built on the fact that almost no other guy is dancing and the dancefloor isn't packed so you can gain value by being self amused, sociable and confident while dancing and basically not giving a tiny rats ass ( while most guys are not)
which is an attractive quality,
the thing is most venues I go to, the dancefloor is always jammed with drunk guys (most of them acting aloof) and girls .
So it's very difficult to be seen by girls (or at least the hot ones ;p) since they're dancing everyone is, and build your social value.
You could then dance your ass off (I tried, some girls respond, but mostly not with great consistancy, it'll make you sweat more than anything else really) and it wouldn't matter because everybody seems not to care about what's happening around them.
How would increase your chances at opening? ( I already do the high five-spin-them-around or the overt ass bump, which both work, some times since the girl has gotta make a snap judgement)

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turby.

ps: i get that it's about having a good time and I do, but just having fun doesn't get you laid, at least consistantly ;) :P


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 01, 2010 12:09 pm 
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Why not just talk to her? I always see guys just dancing like a dork in front of a girl and hoping she will react to him (resulting in her ignoring him). I seriously don't understand why these guys keep on trying out this strategy. Maybe if ur a professional dancer or something, it might work out yeah..

So my 2 cents: Talk to a girl you like. It shows alot more confidence.


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 01, 2010 5:10 pm 
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If youre going to start on the dance floor dont open until after, the interruption of the dance can break the flow of game. You should get her attention, and then afterwards move in to open. The dance floor offers to many escape routes for her to use if you attempt to open her (or before you are on the floor, she can just ditch you while on it later.)

Just do a non-verbal advertisement and later, after the floor, open her. It will give her time to check you out while youre not looking AND let her think about you, and why you look sooo familiar or whatever. It will build the tension and pique her curiosity. Hold your cool, be somewhat patient, and don't flinch.

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PostPosted: Thu Jul 01, 2010 5:12 pm 
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opening verbally isn't the best way to go (way too much distractions) , I speak from experience here (you just end up killing the energy if u don't transition well), but you do make a point, overthinking it isn't gonna help either, I just prefer having an optimum move, but sometimes u just gotta to do it!
thanks for the reminder :wink:

ps: no sarcasm implied :P


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 01, 2010 5:14 pm 
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thanks mate @ deviated rationality


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 01, 2010 5:27 pm 
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Not a problem. Keep in mind that the set up is just as important as the opener and rapport building. The best PU's I've gotten were from set ups like that, where you get them to notice you, you don't notice them at first. Then, you "notice" them for the "first time" and do something to get their gears turning.

Dance floors are awesome for this, go out there and have fun. And look like you love it. Doesn't matter if you're a good dancer, she is going to see it and laugh. But, that laugh is going to translate to her (not us) as someone who knows how to enjoy himself, and is having a great time. She will want to be a part of that.

Word of advice: watch the dudes on the DF. Watch their eyes and what they do. Most guys try to check girls out the entire time and be sly about it, but if youre not the chick being checked out, every other chick in the club will see it. So just stare off into space or some where besides a rack and ass, and you will get even better results.

Women are watch us all the time, from the second we walk in till the second we leave. So stay consistent all night with your DHV, DF etiquette, and social proofing. The girl you wind up fucking is going to be watching you proofing with everyone in the club, whether you see it or not.

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