Guys, i just started reading about the Game; and I'm going to be an expert one day. I suffer from a lack of confidence, i don't know why because I'm a well rounded guy. Nonetheless, Im a fucking virgin at 21. This new girl just came into my life and she's amazing.

Here's the scoop, to put in perspective she's got 1500 friends on facebook compared to my 400...she's a really popular academic, who's won numerous awards. How i gained her interest i'll never know, either way we've been talking alot as of late, but only through text, is that bad?
Also, I'm a virgin... do i tell her? before she;s disappointed by my performance?
I've promised her memories to be made the first time we meet up... what should i do to ensure she is not disapointed?

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You just lost the game. You've never even MET this girl but you assume she's out of your league because she has a ton of facebook friends! Here's a bulletin buddy, nobody in the world has 1500 friends. Tom Cruise probably has 12 real life friends. I don't even have a facebook account, but I bet you your virginity I could have 1500 friends by the end of the day. Big whoop.

You know what, when you meet this girl, you're going to be the one who's disappointed because she won't be as pretty as her pictures. I promise you. Don't worry about disappointing her, concentrate on your good time. Make sure YOU are having fun. That is how you win the game. Not by assuming some internet girl you've never even met is too good for you. Pffft. Grow some confidence. So what if you're a virgin, it doesn't mean you have to be a stereotypical AFC. You are too young to pin all your sexual hopes on some girl you found on facebook. Go to a bar and let a HB5 (can you even call her an HB?) break you in if you're really insecure about it. It still feels good, just keep the lights low.

p.s. do not tell her you're a virgin. Ever. The first rule of PUA is you do not tell a girl your number. The second rule of PUA is you do not tell a girl your number! So put a third option on your poll. "Never." Make sure she's clean and ensure her that you are, too. That's what matters. Just tell her, "Hey, I don't want you to lie about how many men you've been with and I don't want to exaggerate my past, so lets just let it be." No good EVER comes out of finding out a girl's sexual past.

Fucking eh Man.. you've given me an ounce of clarity, thanks, i'll take your advice dude...

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GoldGlove:

minsok is right. There isn't much to disappoint when it comes to sex. Yes, you can get better at understanding what a specific girl likes and dislikes, but other then that, you put it in and you take it out. Not rocket science here. There is no need to say anything to her.

And the facebook analysis of her value...is BS. I purposely don't have a lot of friends because if I don't hang out with you on a regular basis, there is no need for you to know my business. Does that mean girls don't find me attractive? They have nothing to do with each other.

Actually, only having 10 friends on facebook and no comments in the last month is a DLV. If there's not a lot of activity on your page, she will think you're a loser, even if it's because you only use facebook to keep in touch with people out of town. You're better off not even having a page. It is social proof.

1500. friends yeah right---someone that says hi too you across a street twice a month is not a friend they are not even an acquantance.

1500 friends and 168 hours per week---she probably sleeps 60 of those hours
so we will divide it into 1oo hours--do you recon she spends 4 minutes of her time with each of those friends per week--sounds like a lot of close friendships

Agree with you thats why I don't have a facebook account.

Thank you gentleman, I'll note that I'm not focused on her fb friend count much at all, i was merely just trying to put it into perspective that, between the enormous amount of people she knows, and all the academic scholarships she's attained, that i could quite possibly out classed. You have helped me realized it for what it is, I'm only out classed if i believe I'm out classed.

Listen, were going on a first date, taking tips from all you PUA's out there i promised her that the first day we would create some memories... she says- what kind of memories, i said the kind that will make you want to see me again and again and again. I dunno, im a rookie, but its an open ended promise. How should i approach this first date?

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You approach it by not putting her out of your league. You're not outclassed. There's no such thing as leagues. If you were here, I'd punch you in the tit. As for a first date, go somewhere interesting most people don't go. There's an awesome hands on children's museum where I live. Do something childish like Chuck E Cheese, that always works out unless one of you sucks as a person.

fucking A! chuck E cheese is a fucking great idea!!!! so many chances to get close to a girl there. thanks minsok!

Who are you is not as important is who you tell her you are or who you come off as. Tell her some stories that have DHV spikes and she will fall for you

I don't think you need to tell her at all, why would you?
Its generally a turn-off, as girls woner why, at 21, you still haven't stuck your penis inside a vagina.

The way you described her, its likely that it doesn't even occur to girls like this that anyone is a virgin anymore, and thus she would never ask you, and you don't need to tell her you ever were a virgin when you first met. Probably won't even believe you if you told her yourself.

You make alot of valid points there Rico, definitely going to take them into account. Although last night i met with her for the first time, i was pretty smashed, so my ability to communicate wasn't the best. This girl talks forever though holy fuck, like my godddd does she ever talk, we were talking for 5 hours. Is it alright for her to dominate the conversation? should i be the one in control? if so how do i do it?

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Hey just on the topic of Face Book I'm only new to the whole pick up game myself and im 17 but after reading through different books and taking notes on pick up for the past 5 months i finally got my chance to use some of the stuff ive learnt this past weekend. Mind u due to low confidence i had to get a little tipsy but holy fuck it worked !! i knew it would, just didnt expect that it would work that well. anyway at the parties i was at i made sure a friend of mine had his camera ready and took lots of photos with me and the different chicks and the line "kiss for a camera" then point to ur cheek almost always works, never had a chick turn it down yet, best is when u get two chicks each cheek, also if uve gotten enough kiss cheeks try either u or ur friend saying "one more on the lips ? for the camera ?" thats a mad one aswell and helps alot, but my point is if u can get photos like that then upload them on ur FB account asap cant wait till my mate puts them up, just helps the social proof. And if chicks see you doing fun stuff and having a good time with other people especially other chicks then it must be good for them to get with u right ? Anyway man like i said im only new and need help myself but theres some practical stuff i worked out this weekend hope it helps

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