Hey guys i'm new here n happi 2 noe the game...will probably rate myself a 6, from sg, got my nick cos it somehow rhymes with my real name n use 2 go gym alot, and by addin a y behind u get gymy(jimmy), some crap i thought of...

What's the best suggestion 2 handle a gal tat's around 7 u have knew for 3 years n she noes tat u like her ever since but then u get the neg more than i does the neg on her

But then again sometimes out of the blues she wants u...n u keep fallin in and out of the LJBF status, got her sisters' joinin in when it's suppose 2 b a 1on1 date(crap)...

And after gettin 2 noe the game, i got a feeling i gonna b saved. I'm 22 this year & have not kissed any gals in my life have waited n wasted my life on her...

I think i seriously have trouble tryin 2 overcome giving my 1st kiss n gettin the gal into the mood when lot's of times i'm juz under her block n had the chance 2 move in 4 it...then i backed out again....

My sense is tellin mi 2 bastard her n move on...but then i wan 2 play the game on her 1st b4 i get the real game goin...

Any idea dudes?

Can you turn down the l33t spelling for a little I had to re-read almost every sentence to figure out what your trying to say. It's not a text message so your not having to pay extra if it's a longer message.

My advice would be to find a new girl, while you may think your in and out of the LJBF zone if you haven't ever kissed her then you've always been in it and she's just playing with your head. If you've been working for this for 3 years then there is no way the game is going to get you out of the LJBF unless you break contact with her and start dating around.

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"Why do we fall, sir? So that we might better learn to pick ourselves up."

well... sorry cause it's the way i typed to everybody that i know....but now for the committee i'm gonna type word by word....i had chances to k-close by the look in her eyes but everytime i just backed out...think was at least 10 times...can't get out of the comfort zone...

Thanx Surreal...since you are the first to give mi this advice it's time to move on...i guess..get the game on.

I still need advice on how to k-close any future hb...and not run away like a pussy...or pretend tat i'm not interested...it's a form of neg but too many i think it got out of hand and became another message it seems...

There's a bunch of different ways to come about a k-close. Some people , like myself, don't use lines but just move in. Others will use a line like "Do you want to kiss me" which they'll either respond yes or no. If they say yes then you move in for the kiss if they say no tell them "I didn't say you could, it just looked like you had something on your mind." That's just one example of one they used as an example in the VH1 show. Look through the boards cause I know there's a couple posts of what people use.

I wasn't trying to insult your message, it's okay to use some short hand but when it's used as much as the first message alot gets lost in translation. If your looking for guidance and critiques you need to be to the point but detailed otherwise we could lose some information that could have been important.

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"Why do we fall, sir? So that we might better learn to pick ourselves up."

Hey just like the game ha....i gonna stick around and get all the knowledge i need...by the way this hb7's birthday is coming real soon

I am choosing to ignore her, pretend not 2 know even though i told her before i know about it but not to be rude should i just message a happy birthday?...c what happen next...

To prove that the game work i gonna k-close this girl 1st....hMMmm...well maybe not...just move on ha...

o.k., please if you ever want to convey value, TYPE SO I CAN UNDERSTAND YOU. I can definantly tell you are new, you have a desperate case of one-itis, and that makes this worse, so here is what you do.

Start going out sarging, MEETS LOTS OF WOMEN, this way you will have a lot my girl friends to hang out with. after this has been happening for a while, the girl will WANT you, because you convey so much value.

good luck.

Yes man... i am with the other guys. I struggled to understand what you were even asking by the way you typed... even when u cleaned it up it was still hard to follow....

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1) you need work on your inner game
2) read MM/Magic Bullets/ The Game (learning the social dynamics of how this shit works is priceless)
3) drop this girl and find new ones


If you read those materials, it'll give you advice on "how to kiss" or "when to kiss" and how to gauge when they are ready for it.

I am kinda from asia(singapore if u guys know where) so have some problem typin good english sentences out...forgive me for that...i realize i have so much 2 learn...

Had read "the game", probably will be some knowledge junkie from now on, stick around and see all the field report this committee has to give...

Today i went out town with a buddy, trying 2 tell him how cool it is being a Pua but he called me some pervert and despo(desperate person) & when i evaluated the Hb he told mi not to create stupid things...guess he's being AFC..

Tried targeting some HB6+ for starters but failed to try out under peer pressure from my good old buddy(if i were to go sarging guess i can't count on him as a wing)

I was crossing this overhead bridge and saw these 2 Hb7.5 & Hb8
Two things crossed my mind...
1) How to stop them both and listen to my opener while they are halfway climbing the flight of stairs
2)How to get rid of my AFC buddy so that i can approach them

Well...since i can't solve both of it i just hold eye contact with them give them a wink, they stunned for a while(maybe trying to figure out who am i), smiled and o well...there they go...

So mimicking this alex guy came through my mind...
-Hey i need your opinion on something will u ever date guys who still cuddle their teddy bear when they sleep(this video's from youtube quite interesting ha. Link is "http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5cgmIMvg ... ed&search="

O well...need to find some pua in sg to see for real how it's done...

And then leave tat AFC buddy of mine stunned...any solutions for my above questions by the way..

Ok i see you're a type who needs to be out with a friend present.
thats part of your social shyness also why you want him to learn about PUA's so he can be with u doing it.
a person has to have the want and drive to change your buddy doesn't have that.

Wingmen are unrealiable useless they have a high level of game and can keep a conversation going and if they know the wingman rules.
Rookie wingmen are more of a burden than helpful.

Right now your going to have put yourself out there alone.
Maybe once your friend see's it working for u he'll come around
Make it work for u first forget your boy for now

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