| Having two HB8.5s on a couch, talking away laughing, I did this one. It took 20 minutes for her to figure out how to even play this. I explained it three times and even then at the end of the game she didn't tell any lies. Which was funny because inuitively I really thought she hadn't lied. I did this one on a 5 set, four girls one guy as a DHV/Attraction building. I did it after a spin move, I love the spin move after doing a Time Constraint. It's like a bubble pops in peoples heads. The spin move is when you take the HBs hand spin them to where you are standing and you to where they were standing, extending the "Look I stole your place" gambit, making it even smoother. After that on guessed that she lied on the fourth question. She freaked out and had a good laugh, I ended the set there, in retrospect I could have kept it going to ages.
I like this quote:
"Once you open a set, it's open", you can come and go as you please, come back to say hi, introduce people. For large sets where you cannot remember specific names, introduce them as "The Brady Bunch". Once sets have been opened you can leave your friends in groups, mix them around, observe how they interact and listen to their interactions. Even though you can excuse yourself, you have already made five friends, in the space of five minutes.
On the other hand, I did the five questions game on the other HB and she lost twice HAHAHAHA! First time she got the 4th question right, then she got the 5th question right. It was a laugh and there was some generally good Kino building going on. At the end of the set, I had built attraction and comfort. It was exactly what I needed to move on to other sets. That night I opened at least 20 sets, some only for a few minutes, still it's all social calibration.
The lying/5 statement game is great, because it definetly builds up your calibration for social dynamics. The key to calibration is A, being your best self, B, being aware of the social setting/set. _________________ “You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her”
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