Hey Guys

Could use some advice on this one.

Went on a date the other day with a HB10. We’re talking about a drop dead beautiful girl but cute and without the usual attitude.
We ended up pub crawling and both got really drunk (I know, not exactly by the book but I live in a country where drinking is what we do).
Anyway, OI’s included:

- Kino from her
- When talking about future relationships she uses me as an example.
- She was supposed to meet friends later but didn’t.
- Invited her to come have dinner at my place sometime and she accepts.

At the end of the night we ended up talking about what this was all about. She told me that she was afraid that I just wanted to have sex with her. I told her that I felt this was stronger that just physical attraction and we ended up kissing.

Now, my problem is the following

- We were drunk so I’m not exactly sure I’ve built enough comfort (I know it wasn’t enough to have sex that night).
- I guess I lowered my value by indicating that I was interested in a relationship.

If I text her, inviting her over to my place I think I might blow it since, given the level of comfort I have, this is an aggressive move.

There’s just something fishy about the whole situation. I mean a HB10+ without an attitude and where negging seems counterproductive. What planet am I on?

What do think I should do?

I’m thinking about sending her the following textmsg:

“I have some good news”.

This will pique her interest and she would probably send back something like:

“…?”.


Then I would ask her to meet me for half an hour after classes (we are both students but not at the same campus). She will be more likely to meet me because of the time constraint (I tried it with 3 other girls last night and it worked like a charm).

From here on I just have to build more comfort and set up the date at my place. I would probably DHV by saying something like “You seemed like a girl with high standards and I like that about you…. Bla. Bla ” (who cares about the news I’ll just come up something funny).

The idea is to break down a relatively big decision (coming back to my place) into two smaller pieces: 1) agreeing to meet me for half an hour. 2) Then agreeing (without being drunk) to let me cook for her later this week.

The alternative is calling her but where I’m from, only the needy/creepy ones call up girls they’ve just met. Texting is how people usually communicate.

Any thoughts?

Since it’s been two days now and I haven’t contacted her yet I have to strike soon.

U probably would have been able to sleep with her just cause she was drunk... so good job on self-control. moving to S without enough C would have caused regret next morning...
here is my suggestion... dont bring up the dinner thing at all... pretend you completly forgot about it... its not a big deal to you
as you mentioned she was drunk when all this happened so you dont know for sure how she feels about u now... meet her somewhere else and start at C1 again and build from there... you can tell where you are in the set frmm the way she behaves around you... i am hoping by the time you get to C3 she will bring up the dinner thing... thats when you know you need to move to S stage.
best of luck man!!

I would call her. Who cares if its only been "Two" days. Apparently you haven't ever read MM or Magic Bullets. It's not when you call, it's the "call" itself. She obviously had a good time with you, so bring her back to that state when you call her. Make her relive those emotions again and set something up. Don't ask....just say.........have dinner with me tom, lets say 7pm...... If she has plans/other obligations, she'll suggest another date. Don't jump through hoops, but compromise.