AGREED!!! 90% of the post ideas in this thread are BAD advice!

There are two things you need to differ: DHV/DLV and Social Proof!

If you get alot of likes/comments, that's social proof. You have facebook friends who think you/your post is funny or just generally comment and like your posts alot.
However Social Proof comes in many facets and is only one factor to DHV.

WARNING: You may still be overall displaying LOWER Value if many people like your post.
Why do I believe this?
- even if 10 ppl like/comment, that is propably only be a subset of the people who READ it. Many may not have liked this post or your style of posting attention seeking or too personal stuff in general BUT MOST WILL NEVER TELL YOU. Many will even talk behind your back about it and sometimes you'll find out indierectly and it will be too late.

YOU CAN get a negative reputation on FB and so be sure to post things you know you won't regret (because it's easier to ruin a reputation than to build it)

One major problem with facebook is that you have tons of different people added: potential dates, ex dates, friends, coworkers, business contacts, family ... is it really worth pissing one group of friends/ potential dates off getting a few likes and fun responses?

My advice DON'T post:
- politically incorrect things
- things that directly show you're a player (like "Love is for girls and gays!")/horny (like "you know what this is? this is my new fucking haircut. you know what that means? im gettin some fucking pussy tonight! ", worst example ever but there are many more in this thread!) / PUA (like ".Hasn't got time to see all the ladies in his life, but take a ticket and wait for you're number to be called .Hasn't got time to see all the ladies in his life, but take a ticket and wait for you're number to be called " OR "Chivalry isn't dead. It is widely used by many men who end up being 'just friends' to every woman they ever meet")
forever you'll be stuck with the horny, easy girls and have a hard time gaining trust with the classy ones if you're being sleazy!
- bragging/ douchbag "I'm the best next thing" post. That kind of self advertisement is DLV, as you are self absorbed and feel the need to tell the world how great you are!
- esp. don't self advertise if it's too sexual like the erection jokes ... that's just sleazy.
- too often, esp. if it's all similar stuff/ same category of post (video, link, what I'm doing, sly remark, quote, etc)
- Don't show who you're dating/that you're dating other women (you can flirt with other women, show you're going out/having fun with them, but you should avoid it being clear, that you're dating/ that there is a sexual relationship going on. Uncertainty is actually enough to trigger jealousy while being public about your casual dates with other women can be a big turn off)

WHAT DOES show DHV RISK FREE?
- doing interesting things. Like saying what events/concerts/cities you're going too, sports you doing, interesting hobbies, projects, job achievements ... whenever something exiting happens in your life ... this displays you as someone living his life, having a lot of experiences, being busy, being fun /rare to spend time with and makes you look like an achiever
- not posting too often/ being hard to get/ unavailible
- better kind of social proof than comments: had a blast with *TAG* and *TAG* at XXX. Write about social events, show you're having fun with a lot of people, complement your friends (e.g. *TAG* made a killer cake for *TAG* party. ) and people might return tags/complements
Esp. do this if you're with good looking girls!
- be witty, funny (without the bad stuff from the DON'T section)
- random quotes from things that girls like and show you're unique. Don't quote the same stuff everyone quotes. Liked the african proverbs and the Dr. Zeuss, great examples!
- STORY TELLING: you had something funny happen to you or noticed something odd /intriguing
- trigger conversations (like when Story telling/ making funny witty remarks), like "Has any one else ever noticed ..." "is wondering whether ..." ) if you want to get comments.

BUT: most of the Do stuff won't get you much comments, maybe a few likes from great girls, but girls will see it and value you and want to hang out with you more/again and be more likely to contact you or use the opportunity when there is a post that is geared towards/ useful for conversation!

^--- you`re over analyzing things.


I could get over basicly any situation

"____has had enough of girls that are only beautiful on the outside"

Just tested it, 8 girls and 1 guy like! =P

Im pretty sure thats not what he is tryna say

We all enjoy that challenge, but its only a "challenge to figure out what works well and what doesnt" if its important! Theres no point to figure it out if it DOESNT MATTER!?

Its like if someone asks if "having candy in your pocket while approaching an HB is ALPHA or NOT?"
Cmon, who cares.....IT DOESNT MATTER!!!
So why care if posting statuses and not posting statuses are DHV!!!

_________________
DISCLAIMER: All things said/suggested by "civilian" are strictly for entertainment and general information purposes only and does not constitute professional advice. I accept no Liability for such comments or suggestions whatsoever.

I agree mostly with what you said, but it seems to me that if you post things that directly show you're a player, wouldn't that attract women to want to be that one who convinces you to be that one you settle down with? Women love that concept of a challenge, right?

I think the biggest demonstration of higher value would be to not have a facebook at all.

Bullshit. It's like not having a mobile phone or toolkit in your garage.

Facebook is a tool which can aid you in organizing your friends and keeping them up to date with events you're having and media you're sharing. It's a tool. And it can give quite an accurate image of who a person really is. So you can use it in your advantage.

_________________
Hi, I need your female opinion on this...

I absolutely agree. Facebook can be a brilliant tool.

But not subscribing to the societal command that you should "be socially connected" suggests independence and confidence - sexy traits. It also shows a rejection of dependence on technology, which suggests primality - another sexy trait. If you are also popular (for instance she sees you out with a group of buddies) then it becomes a huge social proof, since you are important enough to get ahold of personally and don't need online social networking to have a social network.

Nowadays, the first thing a woman does after meeting a guy is run to the computer to cyber-stalk him (fact). By not having a facebook you are throwing a huge wrench into her routine. You are mysterious. You are unconventional. Are those not some of the primary goals of the PUA?

Just one opinion.

this has kind of made me look at facebook in a different light.

maybe having it and using it very irregularly would be better though?

anyway, an extremely good 'direct' natural friend of mine does this constantly...

tagging people in posts...

"enjoyed waking up with (x) this morning"

or, "had a great night with (y)"

MANY likes every time and randon comments from random girls.

very seriously considering introducing him to what we do...

i just posted this in reference to the new twighlight movie.

"Wats all this eclipse talk about? the moon looks fine to me."

_________________
Why ask for permission when you can ask for forgiveness?

Dude, this is fucking genius!

_________________
Cut the shit, time to fuck.

Since this thread is getting bogged down with some useless statuses that have been thought up rather than tested, could people only posted statuses that are successful?

Like that have multiple comments from HB8+?

Wanted:
A tall well-built woman with good
reputation, who can cook frogs
legs, who appreciates a good fuc-
schia garden, classical music and tal-
king without getting to serious.
BUT PLEASE READ LINES 1,3, and 5.

UPDATE:
13 Likes 7 comments
70% of it is girls

Most of the pure gold can also be found on "texts from last night" webpage

(cant post URL due post count)