So here's the thing i've got this HB that i've had a crush on since my senior year in highschool. She was a junior and we had an elective class together. I've always showed alot of alpha male qualities around her, this is not debatable, this is something I know. Yet I never knew how to close with her. She always came off as she was digging me but everytime I made my move she'd retort with, 'Your so crazy', or 'Stop playin!' With a giggle and a smile. I goy heavily thrown into the friend zone. She even addressed me as Freind! It sucked but I was like whatever she's still a great freind and I was more or less content. A little later on after I had graduated and shipped off to the army she messaged me on myspace proffessing her deep seeded affection for me. Ofcoarse as a pathetic little AFC I took the bait and spilled my hopless little guts to her. It didn't go anywhere from there. Through the past two years since I've been out of school she periodically messages me on either myspace or facebook telling me she misses me, gives me her number, and asks me to call her. I used to call her or message her back, but I decided it was a lost cause. She'd never be mine, she knew that she could cat and string me when ever and I'd jump at the oppurtunity. And most recently:

she messaged me;
For some reason ur onmy mind heavily tonight...it wud b nice to keep n touch (her number...again)

I feel as if she's leading me on. I don't think I should contact her. She's just holden me back from becoming the PUA that I want to be. Please comment or give advice if you have any.

The problem is she just has way better game then you and like you admit... you are taking the bait...

But your not taking the bait but your being to needy... she says she cares about you and you pour your feelings out and that tells her your either bullshiting her or your fucking desperate...

Let me give you a rule that will help.... think of how much you want her...

now allow your mind to only want her at 85% of that... think to yourself there could be another girl that will make you happier....

now when you talk to her you want to project about 60% of how much you really like her...

think of it like this... i like chocolate and i could eat a bar of chocolate everyday... but if i eat more it becomes less desirable and to much makes me sick and i dont want it no more....

your mind should be at less disirable state of how u feel about her

you should project one chocolate bar a day... make her wonder if shes the only one...

use maybes and probablys and almosts.... instead if being like i like you so much baby.. change it to maybe i like you... i have to think about it wink wink... welcome to the world of flirting... its not about getting the woman... its about the journey... never drop the L word until u have alot of rapport either... remember your worth alot more than that... respect yourself man... one woman does not define your worth and if u believe that women will respect you...