Fuck "taking offense" be bruital. I want the truth, that's the only way any of of us will progress positively.
I'm fatter than most and I know it, but Chikito was the only one with balls to say it.
Be Honest.
I Don't want ass kissing, I need actual advice.

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Holden/28/Canada
Style of Game: Pragmatic Pimp Approach

hit the gym or go running a few times a day....youd be suprised what running a mile a day can do for you.......a friend of mine was probably about 220 before he left for college when he was there he ran a mile in the morning and a mile at night except on weekends he just rested then and he ended up losing a fuckload of weight i seriously didnt recognise him when he came back

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The sky's the limit

I love the hat and the shirt with vest the only thing that I'd change if I were a man is the jeans.. you want a little tighter fit the loose jeans may be comfy but don't really say much for your body.

Ok here I know a few things bout losing weight and getting buff. A friend of mine got from 100kg to about 85 around 4 months, and got really buff doing that too.

Here's how its done. Breakfast : 10eggs without the yolk and boiled vegetables. Lunch : Boiled chicken with boiled vegetables. Dinner : Boiled fish and if you want, boiled vegetables.

This works because there's no fat in your diet, this coupled with working out 3-4 times a week and running a a mile or two everyday, he really lost quite a lot of weight and got pretty built. It is suffering but... no pain no gain. Hope this helps ya Holden.

P.S : It's suffering.

I thought you're supposed to eat more than 3 meals a day?

Do they not allow hats, or caps... there is a difference. A nice hat is usually allowed. The limitation is typically against baseball hats.

Nah, I contacted the owner and explained its not a trucker hat. But still no go.

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Holden/28/Canada
Style of Game: Pragmatic Pimp Approach

Ok, I've walked in to clubs with the same limitation wearing a nicely blocked fedora, with a feather in the hatbrim and have had no problem walking right in... all they wanted was to check the lining to ensure i wasn't carrying anything under my hat...

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If this is how your normally stand, then I suggest working on your body language, because your posture is rather slumped and you look somewhat defensive like that, not as confident as you should. Also, I like the 2 shirts look, but I try to go with shirts that don't stick out the bottom of the one on top when I'm going that way, because you look a lot more groomed.

As for no hats in clubs, that's lame. I wear a rainbow knit tuque sometimes and I went to a club where they said only the club staff could wear tuques, but they all had black tuques on and I just couldn't figure out how they thought anyone would mistake me as working there. Its like the club I usually go to that has a no jacket policy when I would wear my red leather jacket and it went well with my outfit.

For the record I don't stand like that normally.

I worked for 6 months in a Forensic Psychology lab analyzing body language and statement analysis. I think I know a bit about the BL topic.

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Holden/28/Canada
Style of Game: Pragmatic Pimp Approach

Holden!

Can you post a good thread on what you know on body language?!
Im really despirate for solid advice on it, none of this posture shit, but more on reading body language etc.

Im fine personally, id rather have more info on reading other people!

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Ratio theroy...

Chikito I PM'd you

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Holden/28/Canada
Style of Game: Pragmatic Pimp Approach

ahh no fair...I was expecting another one of your kick ass posts

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~Surreal

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