Hey guys. So last night I was at a club, met this friend of a friend. Making out with her on and off for a few hours. As we left, her friend asked the girl was she going home or coming with me. I could have easily said she was coming back to mine and slept with her. BUT... The problem I have is I'm only 20 and still live with family. I didn't want to take her back to my place since it would have been noisy for my family... And generally a bit crap.

Any advice? What should I have done?..



Ember

go to her place..?

Same problem there. Not easy when your'e young... I should have brought her home and stop making excuses.

i would really like an answer to that question aswell

Um I don't want to KJ, since I have no experience whatsoever in this but I know a natural who has the same problem and he's pissed and asks if he could use one of my friend's dorm for a while (lol), but till he gets his own place he does it in the car. Makes sense. The only problem I could see with it is making the girl agree with it, lol I would pretend its adventurous and a spur of the moment thing.

Depending on how big or small your house is , I usually f-close in a room downstairs with no bedrooms above . Then i move it up stairs to my bed and just go to sleep . Or you could just do what my friend did pay £75 (roughly $160) for a hotel room for the night .

but im also interested in finding a better , cheaper , low risk place

Yeah my mate used to do this, rent a B&B out for the night, aside from this, a friends house/place, your car or down an alley (very classy * sarcasm*) im not too sure myself

I laughed, you can go to the hookers for that money

If you don't want to take her home, then there's all kinds of fun places. There's nothing wrong with a back alley, though there's also fields and your car if you have one =D

B&B is like £25, but no one wants aids lool

Okay this one is easy.

The beach. If not the beach than the lake, the mountaintop overlook, the top of Old Farmer John's barn, whatever. Tell her you have weird sleeping patterns* and love to watch the sunrise. Or say "I know this really cool spot you're going to love." Lay your jacket down for her to sit on.

*This will, of course, make her wonder what you're doing all night long or if you're a vampire - make sure to leave her wondering

LOL same problem.


Solution:

Car

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Depending on what type of nightclub or bar you are in, and depending on the girl, you could get away with fucking in the bathroom.

Just a note, not all girls would be comfortable with this, and you can't explicitly say "want to fuck in the bathroom?". I would usually just take her hand and walk her, when I'm leading her, if she walks into the bathroom with me no questions asked - then it's on. Other times the girl would stop and say something like "where we going?" or "no I can't go in there". That way I just end up going outside with her cause I can tell she is not comfortable enough for that type of thing.

If you want to do that sort of thing, make sure you take her into the girls bathroom. I made this mistake once. I took her into the guys bathroom, next thing I know there like 5 immature pricks standing around us "ohhhh they're going to fuck"... "wanna double team?" and so on. One guy wouldn't even let me close the cubicle door cause he kept sticking his hand through to watch. Idiots. Needless to say, she didn't want to do it so we left.

Also fucking in the bathroom is a big risk. I've gotten kicked out of a club once because the security saw me taking her inside and they stopped me before I walked in. And I got a 6 month ban from another nightclub for getting caught fucking in the bathroom two nights in a row.
You could also get arrested. They called the cops on me the second time but I got away before they arrived.

Another thing is to ask her where she lives. I do this all the time. If I'm just looking to fuck a girl, I will just walk over to attractive girls and within a few minutes of talking I will ask them where they live, if they live close by and by themselves (no parents/family)- it's all good.

Take her to a park at night, it can be really fun. Just don't park in the park itself because cops, (at least in my area), often check parking lots.

Find a nice spot under the stars in a field. Of course, when the weather gets cold again, this won't work.

Im 28 live alone but my apartment is kind of rundown and no money to fix. So Im fucked too.