hey guys i havent been on here in a while...so i been working at this bar/club for the past month as a bouncer and ive been close to leaving with girls at the end of the nite but its all been luck meaning they approached me...i wanna work every nite and leave with a girl or number every nites how can i do this without blowing my cover on hitting on them? i cant use canned material cus theyd be wondering why the hell is this bouncer thinking about this?? so if anyone had any ideas please let me know i wanna try some tonite at work thank you brothers!

-Shaddix

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Why are you hanged up on blowing your cover? Does your boss have a rule against you flirting with girls? Or are you uptight about a girl realizing you are hitting on her? If your boss has a rule against it, then you should try and make some casual conversation with the girl. It be harder for the boss to get on your case. If its you being up tight you need to loose up and not worry so much. I flirt with the girls that come to my work place and I want them to know I am hitting on them as it can only work to my advantage really. The only thing is as long as I do my job my bosses don't care.

Well you shouldn't be trying to be stealthy, because honestly you are trying to hit on her. It should be a very fun, playful time and at the very least if girls are coming up to you, then the least you could do for them is give them your number. Hehe.

You're on the right track, man, keep it up!

Peace.
Kris Roxas

PS. It's okay to be obvious btw, just don't be boring

Dang yo - To be honest with you - when i was reading this, the first thing I thought of was my buddy who is a doctor and never thought that maybe - just maybe - that little nugget of his identity could be helpful in these cases. you're a bouncer - to me that screams a) you're a big strong dude (score) b) social proof. I don't know any girl who deep down wouldn't like to say 'i'm going out with the bouncer from that club tonight'. i agree that you should not try to be stealthy though.

nice thanxs guys im just do my thing then and just be fun n be obvious flirty

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If you establish you're self as a guy with girls around you when your at the bar/club where you work at, I'm sure your boss will be delighted there's women there.

Dude, you have excellent DHV at this club without even trying. Do you ever go out in the club you work in?

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