A month ago, I joined Plenty of Fish. My goal was to date close guys, but over the month all I got were number closes and fluff. This one guy Mike I messaged back and forth. Then I got hired a new job at a supermarket. During orientation, I recognized Mike, though we never met in person. At work, we'd flirt back and forth. A month passes and he texted me last night asking me who I was. I responded saying it was the coworker from work. I never told him how I got his cell and he kept asking me, but I dodged the question. I notice on POF that he's been looking at my profile lately, but due to the fact that I HAVE shades in all of my pics, it's hard to distinguish who I really am. Do you think it's ok to mix business with pleasure when it comes to the game? Should I reveal my true identity that I am the POF girl? or just keep it a secret?

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u may dis-agree but I'm new at this.. so be patient with me, I'm really only trying to help. Nothing more, Not less.

Ok, from my own experience and not by what anyone else has said, mixing Business with pressure is really not a good idea.

Its a very risky thing..and Unless you've been with the person for a very very long time, planning to get married or whatever the case, I would advise you to be very careful.

Relationships that were great at the beginning, ended up turning into a really weird N awkward situation.

If you do decide to go ahead N make sure your willing to take a high high risk, to get a HIgH reward.


[ Should I reveal my true identity that I am the POF girl? or just keep it a secret?]

answer: Only reveal yourself if you really feel comfortable with the person.

I stiLL have problems opening up N fully trusting people myself but my best advice to you would be to go with your gut.. cuz usually its alwayz right. Trust your Feelings N go with it.

Your Friend N feLLow PUA ~ ZerO!

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Should you mix business with pleasure? That is up to you really. You have to ask your self is it worth losing your job over a guy? AS you run the risk of this if you do go out with him. On telling him your from POF, I would tell him. Otherwise you are being a bit deceitful and dishonest. But that is just my opinion.