Ok so bassicly this goes like this:

I met this chick a couple of years ago, we used to talk nanana, showed IOI`s to early so failed. Got my game better later, but i met her when i was going out with my ex. She started dating a good friend of mine which made us 2 tight "BFF tight(completley fucked on this one)" My good friend turned out he was an asshole, not a good friend anymore. She broke up with him. I got single also, need to start building sexual attraction, but from friendzone is preety hard.


What I could do is either cut contact for 2-3 months, come back and rebuild. Or start building some attraction now. She used to give IOI`s that all her bf`s should be like me na na na.

Sooooooo help mi brothers.

I tend to find that the rebound sex with a chick who is a friend, as awesome as it can be usually ends up as just rebound sex. Then they get all akward around you and you end up losing the friend.
If you want more than that I would suggest taking it slowly, by going on dates that arn't dates if you get my drift (hanging out as friends in a romantic enviroment liek dinner or an art gallery, shit that chicks like). This will put her into the relationship mindframe and if she want's to take it further you can evolve it into a relationship.
But it is a tricky one, hopefully someone who has managed this properly will be able to give better advice. My female friends know me as a man whore so generally just want some male attention with no strings after a break up, as hard as it is for me to do that emotionally I feel as a friend I have to jump on that grenade.
Ok that was a lie, I have no emotions.

Edit to add: I too am in the process of trying to turn a friend to a partner at the moment and so far we've just been hanging out. Although I casually asked her out to dinner with a "I just fancied some tasty food as a treat, you're welcome to join me" this was to make it not seem like a date in asking so she didn't feel akward about saying no. But she seems to be keen. It is harder to tell signs of interest though as well, she might just be being friendly, what with being a friend already so getting to a kiss is the most difficult part for me at the moment, although with women I don't know sometimes I don't even have to speak to them before kissing them. So I feel a little out of my comfort zone with someone I actually like in a way more than the usual "She's hot, I'll go home with her tonight" .

i get the whole inviting to dates that arent dates thing, but building up attraction there is my mental block.

I invited her to the BODIES exposition that we both always wanted to go. Now i just gotta focus on how to build attraction. Hard to do when she knows bassicly all my sex life lmao. Got to turn the whole friend mental zone to a " you sound like my ideal mate"

Personally I'm just going to go down the road of I'm awesome you are awesome let's be awesome together and just hope it all works out. If it doesn't there's pleanty more drunken girls with Daddy issues in the bar.