I do.


Well honestly, she fucks up with mine. Maight as well admit it.

Only been togheter 6 months but she was the first chick i actually fell in love with when all i wanted was a piece of ass.
She cheated on me, i left her, she started to go out with the guy she cheated on me. I felt competition, went for it: Won, was better and always will be. She cut off contantact with me for her relationships cause she needs to learn to be fidel (that made me lol when she cheated on him with me for like 4 times). I or her call back once every month and fuck with the heads.

Weird enough, its been 4 months we broke up and i still have feelings for her.

The more women i fuck thought, the less I care and for some reason all my hopes of having a realtionship in the future with her dissapear.

Weird thing is thought, i can`t get relationship-wise attached to a chick since then.


Soooooo i`m putting 5$ on this i`ll see her in 5 years and see what happens.


{btw i`m 19, so all the young shit and cheated on him things are normal... i cheated on her 4 times, yet i claimed to be hurt when she just kissed a guy... lmao... irony}

Lol, thats some silly business, son. Leave her behind and forget about her. Forget about relationships too, you dont need a gf until your mid 20s at the earliest. Play the game and enjoy yourself.

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Its not the size that counts, its her ability to suck it!

I have been exactly where you are right now.

My ex and I met when I was 18 years old. We thought we were in love and everything was amazing. I started to realise maybe I didn't love him when I cheated on him while I was on holidays. Yet, he never found out about this and we continued to stay together. Until we broke up. A month after the break-up, he called me telling me he missed me and we met up. Got back together. A couple months later, we broke up. Then got back together. You get the picture. This went on for 3 years. BECAUSE even though we were both seeing other people, we could not fully let go of this attraction between us in order to have a proper healthy relationship with someone else. Everytime he found out I had a new boyfriend or was seeing someone, he would immediately try and get me back. It worked everytime. We mind fucked each other so hard back then it's amazing neither of us suffered brain hemorrages!

SO, what finally made us get over each other? I met someone new. Someone so amazing he made my ex look like the biggest loser on the planet. I had never fully gotten over that ex until my now boyfriend came along and I fell hard for him.

I think that is the only way to totally and completely get over someone. Find someone so much better suited to you than the ex and you will be amazed.

You can keep going out and fucking a whole bunch of women, but the underlying feelings for your ex won't stop until there is a new girl who you really care about in the picture. And it will happen.

Stop mindfucking her and letting yourself be mindfucked by her and do not have any contact with her whatsoever.

Ok well good luck!

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....Thought you might like a girl's opinion....

yeah guess thats the whole thing with humans, we get attached to the first drug.

I keep realising more and more how she aint the one for me.

Even thought it seemed like she was, I could do so much better.

But Us guys have nothing to do with a relationship until mid-20`s. We`re just there for the ass. Maight as well face it, we rearlyyyy truely care for all this bs.


Except i`m really curious what true love is. They say with true love you don`t cheat on another... well guess i dident feel true love, its either that or we`re just made erronus.


P.S: Quote from House M.D
"The best of marriages are built up on lies" you agree, yes or no?

DEFINITELY!!
Damn straight you can. That's the beauty of being young. We are meant to learn from each relationship so that one day we can find that one who is the ultimate one for us. If each relationship (I mean LTR) is not more compatible and mature than the last then there is an issue here. As we grow older, our feelings, wants and needs change and deepen into something more substantial than when we are younger.
Haha true. The same can be said for the majority of females. Up until your mid 20's, you are meant to be having fun and trying different things. You don't want to be someone who wastes their youth and then grow up and realise how much fun you could have had back in the day and resent yourself and your life for this reason. After me and the ex broke up, I went a little wild and was a major party girl only out to have a good time with my friends. If a guy ever got too close to me, I would run SO fast in the opposite direction, there is no way I was going to get tied down. I am now 24 years old and ready to focus on my career and future (I know it may sound boring to you little youngun but I have had my fun and believe me I went hard at the fun thing!!) In saying this, I am obviously still inclined to party a little but not as hard as I used to and I am ready to settle with the love of my life.
I don't think anyone really knows what true love is until they have experienced it. To me, true love is finding that one person who you can live without (because we never really NEED another human being to live) but you don't ever want to be apart from. It is someone you can see yourself with for the rest of both your lives (obviously I don't really believe in divorce!!) and someone who will be a good parent to your offspring as well as be there as your best friend through thick and thin. It is someone who you know inside and outside and trust completely with your life. I don't think you felt true love if you are questioning it. I thought it was true love with my ex but looking back, there is no way it was. We were too young to understand the full extent of what love is. We hadn't had enough life experiences to delve into marriage and children. I didn't love him enough to want to spend the rest of my life with him, therefore when it broke down, I believe it was because my ego which was severly bruised which made my mind believe that it had actually been love.
I believe marriage is the most sacred and coveted sacrament ever created. Therefore, no I will have to disagree with that quote. I believe the key to a successful marriage is having complete faith and trust in your partner and your relationship. If the marriage is based on lies, how can this work? I believe a marriage based on lies would be a sham (probably very common in celebrity marriages) but if you're asking whether I ever want to be in a marriage like this? The answer is an extremely definitive NO.

Wow long post!!

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....Thought you might like a girl's opinion....

I don't believe that monogamy is necessary for true love. This depends on the individuals. If you love a person, you don't want to hurt them. It can mean not cheating. A friend of mine, who is cheating on his g/f after suddenly meeting the "perfect" woman and hooking up in an intoxicated state, said: my grandmother said: my husband never cheated on me - and if he did, he was gentleman enough not to let me know. So he's decided, that lying is the right thing, if he wants the relationship to work again, after the affair is over - because he doesn't want to hurt his g/f and is convinced this is best for both of them.

Many, me included, have experienced, that if you are deeply in love, you're not even being attracted to others, because you are so focused on your partner. Ans many confuse this with true love.
However look at how many people cheat - did they all not try enough? Or did they not have the right partner? I think some poeple just weren't made for monogamy. And also many confuse true love with oneitis, which is an addiction and immature.
Berthold Brecht (a german writer and poet) said: If you love someone, you form a picture of them in your mind- and then you constantly try to form that person to fit that picture.
Sadly this is often true. We want the person to be how we saw them as we fell in love overwhelmingly and wonder why the relationship isn't working.

Nobody is perfect and will be the right partner for all aspects of life, there is no perfect relationship. So the important thing is to accept the imperfections.

And you can take this even further and say: I love you, but there are so many wonderful individuals out there who are great too. As friends - or maybe also as lovers or for a relationship. Open Relationships/multiple relationships are nothing wrong, as long as you are taking care of the emotional needs of the ones you love and overcoming jealousy showing: because I love this person too, doesn't mean I love you less or that I'm unsatisfied with the relationship.

True love is about understanding and accepting a person as he/she is and in my opinion being open to each other/sharing things (the opposite of building on lies!)

The core thing about a mature relationship is mutual support without it being immature codependance/addiction. The needs and the aspirations of one person become the needs and aspirations of both and at the same time you remain two independant people with their own individual needs. You care about what the other person cares about and you live your lives together finding compromises but yet to don't need to change your ways for the other person. may sound boring and contradictory, but this idea is described well "The art of loving" by Erich Fromm, even though he has a slightly religious and conservative approach.

I don't like fucking with my exs' heads.. I don't find it necessary.