Guys,
Is there any confidence that stems from knowing you can fight another alpha male and win? Is there any lack of confidence from believing you can't? I'm sure there is some form of confidence that stems from knowing how to fight, but I am curious how this applies specifically to attracting women and dealing with AMOG's. When I was in Elementary school I was picked on constantly, most of the time I got my ass handed to me. I never really learned how to fight. Actually now that I think about it that's probably why I joined the wresting team. I'm wondering weather or not there is a part of me that still feels inferior because of this and is holding me back. Anyway, I just want to hear your guys' thoughts on this. Or anyone who has the same challenge but learned how to work through it. Thanks!

If you're thinking about fighting a guy, something went terribly, terribly wrong in your set. It should never cross your mind. As long as the guy is talking/screaming at you, he doesn't really want to fight and he'll back down if you don't escalate him. If he just starts hitting you, then he wants to fight and worrying about it doesn't do you any good anyway. Having wrestling experience shouldn't make you feel MORE insecure. I feel very good knowing how to knock a guy out in ten seconds if I get his neck. Maybe this factors into pickup, I dunno. I was never bullied, I was kind of a social bully in any given circle/classroom. I guess I'm still an AMOG like that.

Don't pick fights man, it's not cool.

You shouldnt get in fights while talking to girls unless you insult someone then you probs deserved it

some guys go out looking for fights but they dont hang with girls so no worries
plus most fights in clubs dont last very long especially if the bouncers are good at there jobs

i was bullied, but it wasn't because i couldn't fight.....in fight better than most and i have won more than i lost but where i live people tended to hang out in groups and act tough and pick their targets by who is on their own and how dark it is and stuff.....it used to piss me off but now im more than over it and all the guys that used to pick on me now tend to leave me alone, in fact they tend to try and stay away from me, so in total i would say being bullied when your younger doesn't mean your not gonna be alpha when your all grown up

there's my two cents

I.C.

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Look, it's mostly showing you know how to fight, not actually fighting, it's like two dogs, most of the time they don't really fight they bark at eachother.
So, just learn some intimidating words and use your body language to scare the bully even more. It's about showing confidence and not about really knowing how to fight, and the fight itself is who ever is crazier, not who is the stronger one.
Everytime just say something like, if I hear one more word from your mouth im gonna break it, shove it into your ass.

LOL at everybody backing down on fights.

Honnestly, I don`t even get into fights because everybody back downs before.

I just don`t take shit from anybody. Somebody tries to humiliate me in public (most drunk guys in clubs) i`ll tell him to fuck off before he gets knocked the fuck out.

You can even use this to get in a click of girls:
I was at the club waiting in line by myself cause my friends were already there and i got late due to work. There were a group of HB7-8 in front of me, was not in the mood to open cause the line was so long. Random guy opens badly in front of me, girls tell him to piss off but he dosent listen. So i barge in:
"Dude either move along, or i`ll move you along"
he refuses
"You don`t even have friends here, you`re afwfully unatractive and you dare say that these girls are your friends?"
*i ask the girls if they know him"
*they say no*
So the guy is 2x my size, but i got a big confidence going on
"Ok heres how its gonna go, MOVE THE FUCK OUT"
"what you gonna do about it?"
*crack my fists*
*push him until he falls on the floor*
"Don`t make me knock you out"
"Are you here to have fun or knock me out, cause if you fight me no way you get inside"
"I don`t give a shit, I can have just as much fun beating you untill the last drop of your blood falls on the floor. So whats it gonna be?"
*his friends take him away*

Girls are all over me, proven alpha male characterestics, they pay my entree.
Whats more awesome than picking fights?

You need to learn to neutralize someone with words, joking around by complimenting their masculinity certainly works. I.E. Man look at you you'd kill me. Or wow your just a little guy aren't you(only works if they are massive). Hey tiny(again massive). Girls don't always want this massive Dickhead. That said it is easier to disarm big guys if you can joke(get them to like you by giving them the physical advantage they want), if they want to come at you and that is how it is, I suggest you land the first punch(Dazed and Confused, but don't stop) and yell he grabbed her ass. Better hope it isn't his gf and better be in good with the girl. Everyone takes your side if he sexually harassed a girl, even his friends, by the time it is sorted out you are gone.

Don't try and get in fights but if it is inevitable(I have never been in a fight in a bar) best to win the fight.

fight fight fight, well no. dont. leave fighting and violence behind you, I mean you gotta do what you gotta do even if the result is ur ass gets kicked sometimes you just cant walk away.

Just use what is between ur ears and insult their asses (in a smart way)

SF

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I got picked on as a kid but yeah I could fight. That has nothing to do with it, it is about your mentality.

All kinds of fighting, insulting, AMOGing is just expressions of another betamale who tries to climb. I never ever fight with other guys anymore, I have already won, why wouldd I fight?

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

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Whatever works for you, dude. There are hot girls who come to pick up their boyfriend's belongings when he gets arrested. They are usually poverty-stricken highschool drop out types. Dumb guys get dumb girls.

Fight Club taught us all that fighting is cool. You might recall, though, that Brad Pitt only landed a drugged out sociopathic hb6-7. Fight to impress men; most women are repulsed by it because it's socially maladaptive (or so they pretend). If you do it in a socially acceptable way (ie. competitive athlete) then you get your cake and eat it, too.

I second that. Real alfa males don't have to fight. they just don't bother it

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Actually fighting could be a DLV, atleast it was for me.

Unfortunately fighting is fun, and the adrenaline from it far outweighs any 'moment of ecstasy' you may feel when ejeculating, but the sort of girls that it is going to attract (outside of a competative environment) are going to cause you too much drama.

Next time a guy starts trouble ask your group "have any of you seen resevoire dogs?". Someone will have... Turn to the tosser and ask "are you gonna bark all day, little doggie, or are you gonna bite?"

then back to your group.

In my experience though alpha males don't reallylike to fight that much, that position at the top is too fragile!

You are still talking about a high beta. That position is fragile. If you are a true alpha male you are safe.

Why would you have to fight if you have already won... Think about that.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

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