im totally new to this PUA thing, so stop me if im missing anything. and if anyone could give me advice on this topic i'd really appreciate it, but my question is how do you game a girl in your social circle?

Depends on your stance with the girl, are you in the LJBF zone or just an aquantence?

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"Why do we fall, sir? So that we might better learn to pick ourselves up."

i dont talk to her enough to LJBF but when i do talk to her she flirts like crazy and grabs me and stuff, but this was before i found out about The PUA, so looking back at it with all the stuff i learned from reading different books and listening to yall, i feel like i could have picked her up easily

If your not in the LJBF then you definately have a shot, just use the boards and come up with a game plan. This question has been answered many times. It would be best if you approach this then repost on what you did and allow people to give you pointers on how to improve it, not knowing you or the situation the only advice we can really give is to follow the form.

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"Why do we fall, sir? So that we might better learn to pick ourselves up."

thanx for the advice dude, i plan on working my game hopefully tonite and if not tommorow nite

theO

IMHO I stray away from dipping into my social circle.

But then you need to ask yourself why you are investing time in PUA.

Are you looking for the one woman with high value that will be your mate? Or are you just in it to bang lots of hot chicks? If its the latter, I would say dont go for the girl.

Shes in your circle, she knows your friends, you get some dates, or one, and get the f-close, then shes calling your friends and bugging you and following you, then you are in the same boat as another guy on the forum.

Just my observation

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well, if your not scared of a girlfriend:

1. you dont have to open her, you are free to talk about everything you like to her and are free to interact with her in most ways.
2. She seems attracted. Try to think back which DHVs she observed. you can make fun of her for groping "hey that shit aint free", but dont be mean. I think you will be fine if you just talk comfort with her for a while, find out a little bit about her, she has to qualify, which means she has to show you things that you find attractive(...about her personality...), let her find out a little bit about you until at some point its obvious that u 2 have a connection. but keep it interesting. I think the hardest part is doing that without killing attraction.
3. play it cool. dont kill the attraction by conveying too much interest in her too quickly.
4. dont play too cool. because that does not work.
5. for everything else just be the alpha i hope u are