Hi,
I would be glad if you could give me an advice:
I just started flirting with a girl. After a time i asked her if she want to go in for something with me at the weekend.
I knew she made plans to go on a birthday from a friend at the weekend that she is not that enthusiastic about.
She told me that i have to lure her away from the birthday with a better plan.
So i started to make some suggestions but then she told me that i maybe could come with her to the birthdayparty.
I denied that because i had no good reasons for that and she also gave me no good reasons.

My plan is to wait till she make a decision about it. Maybe she is going on the birthday without getting back to my plan to go in for something with me.
Do you think that is the right plan or should i be some more active.

Well, from what you've written, she's given you the option of "luring her away from the birthday party." She wants you to make some creative plans. Don't just sit back and wait for her decision.

So use your mind and create a fun date...

But you should also consider what kind of birthday party is it?

If it's a house party with friends and family... don't go...

If it's gonna be a party at a restaurant, or some place very public, you should tell her that you'll meet her there... When you get there, don't go to where she's at, just acknowledge to her that you're there - send a text or whatever. If she's not into the party, then she'll go and hang out with you away from the party, away from her friends. From there you'll be able to leave and go do something else. Only do this if you're comfortable going alone... don't bring any wings.

CAUTION - Don't get caught up waiting there for a long time - this makes you look desperate and you just DLV on yourself. If she's totally into the party, tell her you have to meet up with a buddy and leave. Call her later.

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Thx for the answer.
It´s a house party (I wont go). I wont make plans for the evening because i have surprisingly some other things to do there.