Being the Man

Don’t try to buy your way to a woman’s heart.
The more money you spend the more she acts
like a prostitute- your money for her attention

A woman will resent when you spend money on
her for no reason but her looks. Only spend
money on a woman to reward good behavior

“I have him wrapped around my little finger” is
what a woman thinks when a man lavishes her
with a lot of presents before sleeping with her

Women feel pressure to reciprocate favors
you’ve done for her- but sexually. She’ll feel
pressure, she’ll be uncomfortable, and she’ll
dump you

Stop trying to impress a beautiful woman. You
will be the only man she’s ever met who’s not
begging for her approval

Compliment sparingly- compliments lose their
power the more you use them

If you compliment a woman too much and buy
her gifts, you’re a dork. Only needy men suck up
for a woman’s attention

Being “likable” does not equal being sexually
desired. Being liked is not enough. Friends are
liked. You must be sexy and sexual

Jerks aren’t good for women- but beautiful
women fall for jerks ‘cause jerks treat them like
human beings- not putting them on a golden
pedestal

Don’t bribe beautiful women for their attention,
approval, or sex. Your money alone won’t make
them respect you

Don’t be embarrassed by women’s desire for
sex. Women want sex. Men desire feminine
women and women desire masculine men

Always seduce your woman. Create sexual
tension. Otherwise, it’s the mirror equivalent of
your women gaining 50 pounds of weight

Talk to people in front of your woman. Be
sociable- it conveys sexual choice that women
find extremely attractive

Take responsibility for your actions. If you hurt
her, be a man and apologize

Set the frame- the man who leads always
succeeds. By leading the frame you create
circumstances and a reality that gets women

Beautiful women can have sex whenever they
want with needy men. Their real challenge is to
find a strong man who doesn’t need them

Focus on your own self-improvement. Be your
own best competition and constantly break your
limitations

Women will test you. “Do you walk your talk?”
It’s their way of knowing whether you’re the real
deal

Putting up drama is one of a woman’s tests.
Remain cool, calm, confident- women like a man
who doesn’t take her drama too seriously

A woman will test you by saying how other men
are interested in her. She wants to see if you’re
jealous and needy. Just keep your cool

Women love a man who is stable, powerful and
decisive… but chivalrous. Wussy men who
always kiss ass are none of these

Compliments when said powerfully, congruently,
relaxed, with eye contact, with a smile, and with
no apology floor a woman off her feet

If you compliment a woman simply to win her
approval, she will see you as a weak beggar.
Rather, compliment from a place of personal
power

Don’t compliment women on their looks- this is
what every guy does. Rather, compliment a
woman on her energy and how she holds herself

Don’t bring a woman flowers on the first date.
After all, how has she proven herself to you
besides her looks? Women don’t sleep with
needy men!

Lavishing a woman with gifts is submissive
behavior. Who is the dominant one, you or her?

Have her be the one lavishing you with kisses
Don’t reward beautiful women for their bad
behavior. If they’re acting like a spoiled brat,
stand up for what’s right and say NO

Be decisive, but don’t be a dictator. You want a
woman who trusts your decisions, not one who
follows you out of coercion and control

Don’t chase a woman’s approval like a lost
puppy. Women want a man, not a wuss

Take into account a woman’s opinions but make
your own decisions. You won’t always win, but
she’ll respect you

If you don’t take charge, women will take charge
of you. Take into account what she says, but
make decisions

Pickiness is a quality of an attractive man. Be
picky about the food you eat, what you drink, the
clothes you wear, and even picky of where you
sit

Handle a woman’s bad moods playfully. Break
her state- tickle her, spin her around, dance with
her, slap her butt, hit her with a pillow, laugh

If you allow a woman to walk all over you and
reward her for it, you create a spoiled monster

Treat your woman like you would a forbidden
mistress. Throw her down on the bed and ravish
her

When you lack purpose, a woman will direct
your life, hassle, and nag you. She will attempt
to give you direction since you lack it

If a woman sees you have options and are
desirable to other women, she’ll work hard with
good behavior to keep you happy

Women will often plea and pout and withdraw
emotionally to get their way- don’t cave in.

They’re testing if you have a backbone
You know you’re pussy-whipped when you
become falsely agreeable

Don’t give a woman free reign to your
MasterCard or feel that you have to buy her
expensive dinners or nice clothes to win her love

Instead of encouraging and rewarding women’s
bad behavior, encourage and reward her GOOD
behavior

You wouldn’t reward your friends or family for
walking all over you– so don’t treat a woman any
differently just because she’s beautiful

All the money, material, and career success in
the world is pointless if you can’t relax enough to
be around and entertain beautiful women

Traditional dating advice demands that men kiss
a woman’s ass and give women all the powerthrow
such advice in the garbage where it belongs

Candies, cards, flowers, and fine dining can’t
cover up your nervousness. A relaxed man
needs none of these and is desired for who he is

Be a gentleman- hold the door, let her walk first,
take her hand. But don’t be a boring stiff who’s
always worried about how to act

There’s a difference between being a good guy
with a good heart and being a wet noodle of a
nice guy- a backbone

The romantic hero is neither a “nice guy” nor a
“jerk”- the romantic hero needs neither a
woman’s approval nor put her down

Don’t profess your love for a woman until
AFTER you’ve slept with her- otherwise, the
pressure will drive her away

On a date, don’t lean in and fawn over a woman.
Sit back, relax, and let her come to you