Hey guys, I'm new to this but I want this girl soooo bad I have one-itis with her right now...


So here's the story:
- Met this girl 3 years ago, we were good friends then I started getting attracted to her.. and we sorta liked each other, but we never made it explicit in any way.
- I left for school, msged her once in a while but we drifted away
- She msged me a few times, but I was too cocky and shit to ever start a convo with her
- Thought about this girl every day for like 2 years since, and just regretting not msging her
- Then last week ago, she randomly msgs me and asks me about my school (cuz she going there next year)
- We had a really good talk on AIM but just about school and shit, and I dunno if we flirted or not, she remembered shit about me from like 3 years ago



WHATS MY NEXT STEP??!?!?!? I always feel pussy about msging her, cuz she's good looking and tons of guys msg her too... so I don't wanna be like another one of those desperate guys.
help!!!!

i am new to PUA

But if that happened to me
i would ask her for a coffee

just to see how she is doing and stuff
then make your move

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I have just found out about this system.
And it quite intrigued when i read about it

I should say that a big amount of time has passed and you already know each other. You should better put your effort into eliminating one-itis, as it's your psychological limit. You could even let her go away, simply as it sounds. Just let her away and stop thinking about her. If you're going to attract her and suddenly will lost her, you will have much stronger one-itis and also your whole confidence moved down.

Or I would offer the above response - just to drink coffee. Not expecting anything and acting as you're not interested in her.

Good luck

Ok first SHE MESSAGED YOU! second SHE REMEMBERS STUFF FROM 3 YEARS AGO.. i bet you cannot remember much about her from that long ago!! These are two pretty good ioi..

Just keep msging her, be cocky & funny, she may have you freind zoned, if so you will have to work your way out of the freind zone.. after you have chatted to her for a bit, invite her to some party you are going to or something, (not just you and her, you and freinds, maby house party or something.. tell her she can bring a freind!)

OK she IM'd me again, and we talked.. .all school stuff though
and at the end i gave her my number telling her to text me if she has any more questions about school.. .. comments on this? is this pussy? i didn't ask for her number, i just gave her mine

damn why am i such a pussy for taking this so slow?!?!?

i read in a book about PUA never to give you,re number
always ask hers

just make you,re move like jtaz said
that you got 2 IOI work with it !

i wouldn,t call a girl from three years ago just to talk about school
so she may be interested

hope it helps
Greetz

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I have just found out about this system.
And it quite intrigued when i read about it

Bro, yu have a really good oppertunity to have a relationship with this girl if you want.
What you need to do is first, get HER number,
second, you might not be in the friends zone for to long.... i believe ur in the borderline seeing how she doest kno much about you since the last 2 years.
Use that to ur advantage, use that road to get you out of "Friends Zone Blvd"

Qualify her: (Helps you learn about her since you dont shit about her and lets you be sure yu want her for her and not her beauty or as a Trophie.)
Qualify yourself to her (if you indeed want LTR)
ESCALATE!!!
Get Together, have fun.... Just make yourself LTR worthy.

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