Hi guys,

Ive recently become really interested in PUA but unfortunatelyy im a bit (ahem) smaller than average and it has really given me serious doubts as to whether I can eventually become a PUA. Im smart, quite good looking and confident most of the time, but its this problem that seems to be constantly lingering in the back of my mind and has for years.

Im doing penis enlargement exercises but Im wondering if its all going to be for nothing, but i really dont have anything to lose but to just keep it going and see what happens.

Ive havent had much sex (even at 36!) just because ive always been insecure about it, and the times I did have sex, they were not pleasant experiences, and im always left embarrased and feeling inadequate.

I had to get this off my chest before I start to apply my "game", but i hope someone out there can give me some advice.

much appreciated

cheers

Hey fella,

for a start - i want to commend you on your honesty, I takes a real man to admit they might have smaller penis than others; and i'm certain there are lots of people in the same boat as you.

I've read a lot of stuff about stretching exercises (just out of curiosity), and it's found that doing them might increase the appearance of your member when flaccid by a very little amount, and having little or no increase when erect. The stretching breaks the skins cells, and over a surprisingly small amount of time - they heals an return to their normal size.

So it's not got really much point in doing them.

Instead, when you get yourself erect - tense your pubic muscles and with your pubic muscle - do "push-ups" with your dick, put a towel on it for extra weight if need be. This will increase the amount of blood flow to the dick making a harder / bigger erection. Practicing yoga to increase bodily blood flow and experimenting with tantric sex techniques (more for long term relationships - ONS are just hot steamy sessions) can also give you longer, harder erections...

Another thing you must work on is foreplay, if you can have your women screaming with pleasure over foreplay - she'll be eager for your dick.. Good fingering / licking technique is gold.

guys that are on both sides of the spectrum of size (massive and small) have got the same problem! believe it or not - it's true. The man with an average erect size of 6.5 inches is a winner and will have the most enjoyable sex. Woman cannot accommodate a massive cock and they may not always have full satisfaction with a smaller one

Get yourself confident, and learn how to fuck like a god.

take this an inspiration.. Russel Brand, that annoying little man has got a harem of women after him, and he has a tiny prick, but he's a tantra expert.

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i don't know how small yours is, but in generally, size doesn't matter a lot, it's just about if it works well, keep that sentence in mind.

secondly, it's not about how big your dick is, but about how big your balls are. or with other words: how alfa or leader you are.

thirdly, think of all those asian and indian guys: they all have small dicks. i can't imagine that whole female asia is sexualy frustrated.


You don't need to be a Biggus Dickus (for those who've seen "the life of Brian") to fuck

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You WILL make a change.

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What's your penis size?

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Go big or go home!

Simple. Don't let her play with it, until she's, uhm.... spread (for lack of a better term). After she finds out you've already hit a home run... Just don't piss her off or she might spread rumors. However, at your age it's not much of a worry like it would be for a high-school kid.

If your looking for a relationship, you do not want a chick that wants big dicks anyway.... *Slut alert* and someone's always gonna be bigger.

I'm not Mr. PUA ladies man, but in my life have only met one chick that seriously got off on big dicks.... She was NOT gf material!

thanks for the reply guys and ill take them on board.

Im around 5.12 inches (13cm) on erection at the moment which is really sh*t and embarrassing, my goal is to gain to at least an inch. I have a book called "Exercising the penis" which a lot of guys swear by so ill keep it up until the end of the year, if there is still no improvement i may even consider PE surgery even though I dont really want to do it.

are there any other books out there for smaller guys with regards to sex that anyone can recommend?

thanks

Check out mattersofsize forum
It's some good info on there and you're not stuck with what you were born with.

There is no way to gain additional inch or anything. I am just a bit bigger than you, 14 cm. It's the average according to wikipedia. If you do penis enlargement surgery it will only make penis thicker not longer. Not recommended.
BS, it's a scam.

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maybe you just watch too much porn, cuz all those guys have big dicks and it's misleading. 13 cm is normal

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You CAN make a change.
You WILL make a change.

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I don't really think its a scam you don't have to buy or pay for anything it's a free forum. People even have before and after pics also, so I guess it's up to you to believe it or not.

i dont think its a scam. A lot of people think that PE is possible because the penis is made up of 50% smooth muscle, and with consistant exercises it can expand just like every other muscle in your body when exercised. It makes sense but ive got nothing to lose anyway.

and I thought 6.5 inches is the average size for an erect penis? thats 16.5cm, and i would kill for that.

and yeah i probably do watch too much porn and those guys are just freaks! lucky b*stards.

5 inches is not that bad. Just foreplay well. You'll be fine.

Careful you guys cause I've heard you lose some sensativity once it gets a bit bigger. I rather have more sensativity then having it an inch bigger! Check up on that before do anything crazy dude!

elite is right, why mess around and do something to ur penis that u might regret?-

just be glad it works.

u should just get good at eating pussy and finger bangin chicks. understand the clit and how to make her cum or just satisfied w ur hand or mouth... or anything else u can come up with.... after that, than get urs.

in other words if ur dick isnt gona satisfy her than do it another way. however i think ur overreacting and ur dick is good enough.

besides, if u had bad experiences with women maybe it wasnt cuz ur dick is small. maybe her vagina was big!

makin a man feel he has a small penis is a shit test (the most evil one)
dont let her win.

and if its still annoying u just make sure u have enough game so she wont be thinkin
"i wish he had another inch"

shell be thinkin "i cant believe im fuckin this awesome guy"

she wants to fuck u for who u are, if it was more about dick size she woulda made u drop ur pants before she got involved w u in the first place.

so far so good, ive gained about half a cm with no problems and it looks "meatier". Yeah im going to have to get more experience at eating pussy, because it used to turn me off, especially if it smealt bad.