Earlier i have got a quite good resultsu using pua stuff. I have slept with six girl in a year, which is very good to me.

Now i have tried it about three months without a success. Tonight i feel like i failed everything. I tried many many girls, without success. Then I talked with my friends, I heard when one girl said "this guy looks like a totally zero". After that I talked with my old female friends, they left me without saying anything. At the moment i feel like no-one likes me. Maybe i had bad dressing, but that cant be the all.

Is there any tips for keeping good self-esteem? I try to think that I'm a cool guy doing what i want. but its hard because no-one seems to like me at the moment. Its also strange because i think i had no problems few months ago. suddenly everything seems to fail. Any tips for going on after that kind of situation?

Dude I didn't get laid for the past 2 years. How would that make you feel?

I was really sad and down on myself because I couldn't even get a second meet up 80% the time. If you are down on yourself and act like a little bitch (ex. ACTING LIKE I DID!!!!), its just going to lead into a spiral effect.

If you are not getting laid for 3 months you probably just picked up a bad habit or a few bad women. I wasn't getting laid for 2 years which means that I obviously did something wrong. I assessed my game and discovered where my problem was.



How you can solve the problem:

I was able to pinpoint my problem when I discovered the moment that girls stopped talking to me. You can also find your problem by assessing which stage in your game girls stop talking to you, or begin losing interest. Do they ignore you from the start? Do they never call you back? Do they meet up with you a second time and never want to see you again? Do they flake? Just figure this stuff out and address it so you can find a solution.


When you think "I haven't gotten laid for 3 months" you're focusing on what your problem is. You will just keep spiraling downward because girls can pickup on how needy and unconfident you are becoming. Because you're focusing on this problem, I can almost guarantee that you are subliminally doing things that girls can unconsciously pick up on. Your success depends on this.

It is really odd, however I am sure that women have instincts which can allow them to distinguish the alpha males from the beta males.

Alpha males think:
- "Who cares if I haven't gotten laid for 3 months or even 2 years? Noone is the judge of me except myself and maybe God. If someone wants to judge me they can go fuck themselves."
- "I'm going to go out tonight and make some new girl friends. Even if I don't get laid, that girl might hook me up with her friend in the future. She might even hook me up with a future job for all I know!!"
- "I'm a good person. I know I will do well one day. Time doesn't matter."


Beta males think:
- "Ugh. I haven't been laid in so long. I need to find some women."
- "I hope I have sex soon."
- "What is wrong with me?"
- :c (little girly sad face)[/b]


So just stay positive and never get down on yourself. Good luck man.

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