so im on this chatroom and there is this super cute i been trying to get at at i talk to her almost ever night (?good/bad?) im thinking maybe thats mistake number 1 but i dont know.. so i flirt with her a lot and she gives me some iois and i give her some iois i found it easier when i wasnt trying to hit on her just have a converstation but the thing is that she does not want to give me her number i have asked her like three diffrent times now and she changes the convo or she dosent respod the last time i said ok i wont ask you anymore i played with her about this one chick and said she was my gf and she was like o so your cheating on me when i asked her for her phone she said well i want to meet you but i dont want to give you trouble with your gf and i just played along and was like you liar you just want to be chat buddys and she was like maybe so idk the most important question is what do i do? do i keep gaming her? do i freez her out bc im the one that always sends her an im first and i know thats bad but idk? also do you think i should take time off the site and not go on so she can think i dont have time for it or somthing (Busy) idk and how much time is ok to spend in a chatroom???? and chating with a girl????

jus say you would like to hang out for some coffee or something.. and set up a meet, then ask for her number so when you get there you can call etc.

Meet her in person first, because then you will see for yourself if shes worth it.. Otherwise if you talk to her on the phone alot , you will build emotion and you may hurt yourself if things dont go your way.