i was from another pua forum but i thought i should try this forum too specially cause its active. copypasta.

Ugh where to start. Basic info(embarrasing to put this out there, but then again this is the interwebz).


-virgin

-18 y/o

-attractive

-black(not a bad thing just sayin)

-no dates/kisses

Basically from what i noticed now that i have a job in the mall. I do have severe AA. I stare Hbs down all the time but i dont say anything. Just freeze up n look at em. Honestly i wont even lie i probably am a boring person and i dont have low self esteem its just true. I w ould like to tell chicks crazy stories or whatever but honestly i dont have any as all ive done my life is work/toke. Im kinda wondering where to start. I work in the mall so there are Hb everywhere.

Basically im just looking to get my meat wet asap. I dont care about other Sh1t because im not even sure of my sexuality(def not gay just hetero or perhaps asexual). Not 21 so i cant go into the bar.



what i plan on doing so far.

- I looked at a thread about a guy sayin its a good idea to keep a notepad of fun things to talk about(so i bought one) what are some of things you suggest i put in there to keep a conversation nice and flowing .

-Openers. Ok read a post where a guy uses "tell me the worst way you would reject me blah blah blah" so i guess it makes you comfortable with getting rejected. Im going to try this but today i also forced my self to try to say "hello how are you doing" to the hbs i seen walking by. Im fairly attractive so most of the time the ladies put the head down walking by me. For now im only comfortable saying hello to girls i make eye contact with. Is this okay , do most guys do this? about 3/4 chicks today responded(not with convo but with "fine" . Ok what are some routine or openers to say JUST INCASE a female gives me some play after i say hello. I dont want my mind being blank.

any/all advice appreciated

some more info:

ok so im back again. im not gonna say im cured 100% on AA but i dont think im worried about that as much as follow up.

im not sure what dhv or dlv is but i tried opening on 3 more hbs and had no followup. I got lucky on one set who gave me convo ,they were kind of dominant(actually im attracted to that).

how do i get those hb mostly 9-10 to open up. they kinda look like they are interested(body language) but give me dry responses. I open up like a book if a female opens on me or gives me convo without doing routines or w/e(i guess this is true because its the only way ive been able to talk to the ladies)


what i plan to do right now: find out and read on inner game, dlv, dhv.

and an update for today:

update again:

haha got rejected as i was told. And check this. It was by the same girl in the set i posted about earlier when i met them in the mall. I will admit my opener was Sh1tty but i thought i could just say hey come here as if she would remeber me.

Me: "heyyyyyyy..... "

her: turns around

"hey i wanna talk to you"(trying to get her attention, i quickly chose this opener because she was far away, we were at the pool and it was kinda loud)

Her:she fanned me off.

Me: "dont you remeber me"

her: "i dont know you"(walks away)



it might be possible she might not recognize me because i cut my hair off real low and didnt really show her any dhv during the 1 min of conversation i had with her in the mall.

i was kinda mad/sad because i failed but also because i kinda liked her even without knowing her. btw shes a hb10.5 then im glad i got rejected because i chose to give pua another chance.

anybody can give me a better opener you can say to a chick u met up with again when u only had small talk with her.

or better yet just a good opener for a noob.
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Im mostly looking to get better @ my transition at this point. Or just a follow up to an opener. Im thinking about trying an opinion opener but i feel like a phony talking about that. specially when its something i dont care about

resurrect this one