OK guys 2nd time posting ever. Ive been reading a lot and i made my first post the other day about AA.

Slight history - I'm 26 afc but ive had a few long term relationships with 8.5s i would say. I am shy so i have trouble opening/hooking without prior rapport, which is kinda what helped me through college (since i had so we were both in class twice a week). Ive been reading casually here and there for a few weeks. Last week i kinda kicked into drive and I read the game. This week i found a lot of inspiration from ChopperStix 'afc to pua in 2 months' thread and Clozers monthly field reports. Their success makes me want to try harder, and make me feel like a failure if i dont.

So 2 things happened today. I went to a little coffee shop this morning and some HB6 comes out form the back and seemed really interested. There was a different barista making my drink. The girl who came out initiates conversation saying some flirty stuff about am i giving her coworker a hard time... I play along and then she asks if i am an aries because of a recent tattoo i got on my wrist. Blah blah blah her too. Anyway she tells me i have to come back again like she really really wants me to. As she said this I negged a little by stirring my drink and making eye contact with them one at a time as if this would be the judging factor in whether or not i return. I could see the anticipation it was funny. I took one sip and looked and them each and said, acceptable... i will be back. and greeted them and left. (i live literally around the corner i will be back) i wasnt really interested in the girl but she had energy and a lot of IOI, so i took it as practice.

Next,

Lunch. I had just ordered and finished filling my drink at the fountain when this ~28-29 yr old blonde 10 walks in to the place (I just turned 26). We have seen each other here prob twice before in the last week somehow and I haven't talked to her or really showed interest other than a friendly smile, but im pretty sure she recognizes me by now. She comes off as a total OC stuck up bitch, alpha female, but she pulls it off. Last time i saw her I was surprised to see she was really talkative to the guy taking the order who is some ~40 yr old indian guy. She was talking bout her job and blah blah lah. I also saw her looking at me out of the corner of my eye and when i looked over she turned away. So i thought maybe she would open friendly if i could get the balls to approach. I was wrong!

So back to today, present time. I grab my food and walk by her on my way out to the patio and give her a little glance. I take a seat and wait about 2 minutes and she walks out and sits directly in front of me at an adjacent table (her back is to me but she is off to the side so i can see her still). She could have sat inside or anywhere. Regardless, she sat directly in front of me within range. She starts to eat and is playing w anipod. After a couple minutes she starts twirling her hair an excessively. I thought hmmm wtf? Is this IOI or am i trippin? I know i read about this shit and how spot on it is but seriously? Either way Chopper and CLozr would call me a bitch if i didnt go for it, i literally thought this . I'm cleaned up, had a nice ass outfit and watch on,... and were the only ones out there... No excuses.

So i play it cool and finish up for a couple minutes. I get up and dump my stuff in the trash and i walk up to her front side. She looks up and me from behind her shades without even tilting her head up. Not welcoming.. but i was already committed at that point.

ME: Hi
Her: Hi
Me: (attempting to be C&F) I keep seeing you here . Im going to sit with you next time.


I tried to say it playfully C&F like if she was friendly it wouldnt be that big of a deal. I was trying to not give a fuck and roll the dice while at the same time showing i dont need it and will talk to her next time. But when the words came out i could feel the nervousness in my voice and i could see it reflecting in her facial expression. She comes out 100% bitch status and says.. "umm thats going to be a problem actually i dont know about that. i like to eat alone." this shook me up a little. I have watched kezias bitch shield videos and i know i needed to counter it with a neg somehow to break it. But i failed and just said "really?" (sarcastically like wow that was really your response??) "alright have a nice day.." and left with the tail between the legs.

This was my first official day game cold approach since ive been trying to get the ball rolling this week. I failed horribly but i'll take what i can from it, granted she was a 10. I need to maybe be more realistic about ones i expect to close while im learning but I need to get over my aa, and hopefully this can kickoff my path to desensitization.

Later guys

On the bright side, she didn't bite. Tried one of my first approaches with the conscious thought of trying to game someone in person, she was a 7 or 8 I suppose. She was sitting away from where everyone was, figured she was shy, perfect game. Tried to talk to her, gave me short 1 word answer and an obviously fake smile, crashed after just a few things were said. It was really awkward, but I think an important lesson you, I, and anyone else who does that will realize that it's just not that bad.

It's kinda embarrassing, might break your ego a bit, but you realize it's just not THAT bad.

I just want to share my wisdom with you..

Whenever you see your kind of 10s, your first thing in your mind is to be sexual with her. Not nervousness or what should i talk to her, what will she think about me etc. This is very important.

So, you might ask..How to be sexual with her. Simple, my friend. Do not masturbate for 4-7 days. You will automatically think sexual whenever you see your 10. So when you talk to your 10's, it won't be nervousness..It will be sexual. Try the gunwitch method. I really love his method and it is working for me very well.

Yeah i've read about the gunwitch method. Currently i would have to be drink to do that but this is the direction i would like to head in (sober) lol. I'm naturally C&F btut i just need to break the ice and not be nervous anout it. Need to work on the inner game

Congrats on approaching a 10, the next one will be a little bit easier.

By the way, I loved this:
I'm glad to be an inspiration...now keep on approaching!

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Chopper - So i'm sitting there nervous looking at her wanting to talk to her.

I know my delivery was weak but do you think a stronger delivery or different opener all together would have been better. I thought straight up directness since she was a 10. Teach me the way

I am by no means that good yet, but I think your opener made you come on a little strong. It forces her to decide right then and there whether or not she is attracted to you, and since she has never talked to you before she is almost always going to choose "not attracted."

I think you should come in under the radar next time. This is why opinion openers work pretty well. There is always stuff going on in your life that you wouldn't mind an opinion on: "Let me ask you something, does this tattoo make you think I'm an Aries? Because I just got it and that's the first thing that girl thought about when she saw it."

This isn't the best opener, because it makes it sound like you care what the other girl thinks, but I was just trying to pick something out of your post that you could ask an opinion about. Start paying attention to these opinion-based things, and you will have plenty of ways to open under the radar!

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"Losers always whine about their best. Winners go home and fuck the prom queen."

yes a differnt opener would have been better. props to u for approaching the hb10 tho. what ur opener said is "i like you and next time i see u im gona hit on u". considering everyone hits on her all day wherever she goes, your just another afc who likes her blond hair and tits. EVERYONE is CnF to her. on cold approaches we need to offer the 10s some excitement without sexuality. fuck CnF on a 10. Be desireless, be excellent. and neg the shit out of her.