Hey guys, I havent been having alot of luck with match.com. I number closed an hb8, got an email from an hb6 and a some winks from big girls. Here is what I wrote, tell me how to make it better:

"Let me guess, youve almost given up on the whole dating scene but as a last effort, you decided to try this whole online thing hoping youl find Mr. Right. If thats you, keep reading. If it isnt, keep reading. I am an outgoing guy that isn't afraid to tell it how it is. I dont take life too seriously. I am a kid at heart. I will make you laugh. I like having fun and im adventurous. I take unnecessary risks and im always pushing limits of life. My main hobby is cars. I am getting into the drifting scene. Extreme sports are cool too. I BMX and snowboard. Im spontaneous. I do what I want, when I want.

I am looking for a girl that wants to go crazy with me. She enjoys going on random unplanned adventures. She is competitive and has an attitude. She likes going out but is cool with relaxing and staying in. She can cook. If thats you, shoot me an email."

Is it better to send winks out, emails out, or wait to be opened by them?

Hey man, I'll be completely honest. What you're doing is qualifying yourself. It sounds like you're trying hard to sound cool. Anyone can say things about themselves. You need to express yourself in a unique way. Be more specific. What kind of cars do you like? What else is there about you besides being into extreme sports?

Also, some of your grammar is wrong.

As for messages, never wink - girls don't respond to that. Always send a message. Girls will open you if your profile is fantastic. Right now you have some work to do.

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Thanks man. I remember reading something about being mysterious to get better results. I guess I need to find balance between being mysterious and talking about myself without qualifying. This whole online thing feels like alot of work...

It can seem like a lot of work when you are starting out, but once you get it down, it's pretty easy to get attraction - the profile does most of the work for you. From there getting lots of dates actually takes very little time at all. I try not to spend more than 20 minutes a day online for my personal accounts. If you want, shoot me a pm and we can see if we can get you a discount on services.

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