Hey guys, there's these 2 hot asians in my class and i keep kicking myself after i go thru class after class and not opening. So today as she was right infront of me i blurted out: (btw...the past week i've just been fucking out of it and keep drawing blanks and keeping conversation has turned into a chore)

me: I've seen that dress like 3 times today
Hb: uhh what?
me: you're dress, i've seen it everywhere
Hb: oh haha, sorry for being so repetitive
me: it's alright
me: Yeah so test on tuesday?
Hb: no , review then test on thursday
me: oh great
-continue walking and say nothing because i'm a fucking idiot-
Hb: i'll see you on tuesday
Me: k bye

I'm usually never draw a blank completely, it may not be exciting or new, but i usually attempt to blurt out something. Is there any hope to recuperate? ...i would kick myself in the head repeatedly if only i was flexible enough.

Thanks for reading!

You can still bounce back from this but your going to have to be able to hold a conversation and not sound so nervous. You opened her with a DHV statement but didn't go anywhere after that. You've gotta have a story in mind to tell and keep the negs rolling. Try approaching more sets to get the feel of how to make conversations flow while using the techniques you've picked up even if you have no real target in a group. Try opening everything around you, even if it is just guys it's all good practice.

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haha you sound like me, i get such a bad blank look sometimes that i start to get red in the face and get even more nervous haha i hate it... but anyway talk to everyone thats my advice talk talk talk.

YES!!!

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