| Any advice is welcome!
A quick introduction to myself, I’m Sky… I’m 25, 6’5” and live in London. I have recently come out of a 4 year relationship which broke my heart and 2 months on I’m looking to get back into the game.
When I was younger I was very lucky with women, I have had 15-20 sexual partners from the age of 15 when I started to 21 when I attempted to settle with my ex. Since our break up I have had very little success in the field although I have tried all my old tactics, the thing is Women used to come to me, and now… nothing!
After reading many self help books on how to read body language I got handed a copy of the game, and now I have seen things in a new way and I am desperate to try some new tactics out. I’ll state now I am not looking to be the best of the best, I’m not even looking to learn from the best. But I am looking to for a way to interact which separates me from all the other lads in the single world and to have something more to my game which makes me stand out from the rest of the crowd.
My Field Test:
This weekend I was invited on a last minute stag do in Nottingham where we had booked a booth in the VIP area of Oceana Night Club. I didn’t wear anything outrageous or have any sort of peacock items to make me stand out, I have found my height has been a big talking point in the past so I thought it would be enough.
After an hour in the dead VIP area I decided to go have a look around and what was in the club, me and a friend went for a cigarette which we found was the best way to scout the club then evaluate in a quite area on what we could see and what our tactics would be. After discussing our tactics we went to the bar to order some drinks where I caught a barmaids eye, I called her over and asked if I knew her… we got talking and I told her I could prove I knew her, I then set my tests into action.
I have an illusion where I get 6 pieces of paper and ask the girl 3 questions, write my answers on my 3 before she tells me the answers fold them up and then write her 3 answers on the other paper. When she unfolds all the paper she finds that the answers match (most of the time).
Skaiy: What’s your name…? Wait don’t tell me, just look me in the eye. *I wrote my answer down folded it and put it on the bar* Now tell me what your name is!
Barmaid: It’s Ruth
Skaiy: I know it is! *wrote down Ruth and folded the paper and put it into a separate pile* Now think of your favorite animal… don’t say a cat or a dog, it’s too easy… think of something different. Got it? Look me in the eye… ok, *I wrote my answer down*
Ruth: Its Horse
Skaiy: I know, now are you ready for the last question? And this one is very personal… ok? *she nodded* Right, Black or White?
Ruth: Black
Ok so now I had 2 piles of 3 pieces of paper on the bar, the routine took 2 minutes, she then opened the paper… and two of the answers matched, Ruth-Ruth, Horse-Horse, Black-White.
She looked stunned, and asked how I knew her… I said “I obviously didn’t, because the Ruth who loves horses I knew liked white more than black.” I gave her a cheeky smile and walked away.
My plan was then to go back after I finished my drink and see if she came to approach me, 5 minutes later I went to the other end of the bar so she was a fair distance away, and she came right over, served me another drink and then asked me how I knew her… I told her we’d never met but I just felt we had a really strong connection, she couldn’t stop smiling. Again I walked off back to my friends and left her thinking. We walked around and I thought as that was a good test, let’s try it on a group. I spotted a group of 4 sat down in a booth and marched over with my wingman in a casual way talking all the way not making any contact, as we got there we walked past and I smiled and asked them if we could get their opinion on something.
The group was consisted of 4 girls, 1 older girl in her 50’s, another moody girl who was about a size 16-18 a hot girl who I’d rate about 6-7 and another who left as soon as we started talking. The first thing I noticed about the group is the larger girl was in control of them, her mood and attitude towards us was more than rude… it just wasn’t pleasant, As I got through my opener I looked to the HB and said “ oh sorry… oh my god, its you…. I’m so sorry I didn’t recognize you, how have you been?” At this point the fat girl chirped in and said:
Fat Girl: You don’t know her!
Me: I do, we met ages ago…
HB: oh? I cant remember
Fat Girl: I know what you’re doing! And it won’t work!
Me: I do know her, and I can prove it…
I got my game underway, 6 bits of paper etc etc etc
Me: See I do know you! I knew it was you…
HB: *Smiles*
I knew I had to isolate….
Me: It’s so loud in here I can’t hear a thing, I have a spare free entrance to the VIPs Lounge, fancy coming up so we can talk and be able to hear?
Before she could answer the fat chick has already made her mind up, and had sussed my game and how it was done. She proceeded to explain how I’d done it (Wrongly I may add… she didn’t have a clue and wasn’t happy with me from the moment I said Hi) She isolated her friend before I had a chance… I didn’t see them again. My wingman told me a minute later the Fat chick had a wedding ring on and probably felt threatened by me talking to her so she saved her mate.
I needed another drink and headed back to the bar, completely forgetting Ruth was there, she marched over and looked a bit freaked out, she demanded to know how I knew her and asked if I had been stalking her as she had a few prank calls recently… I needed to bail myself out of an innocent hole I’d dug, I told her I do magic tricks and that I can do the same to anyone in this club, she pulled her manager over and asked me to prove it. I did 3 out of 3 right, and 4 of the bar girls were all looking at me in awe smiling away. I got a kiss on the cheek of her manager and her and left them too it, after I had confessed it was a trick there was no point in carrying on, but I wasn’t going to be thrown out so I was happy!
As I got back to the VIP lounge I got chatting to a blond, she had the body of an 8 but the face of a 5, we got talking and I asked her if she would like to play a game, I got my paper out and start. She wasn’t impressed but she kept giving me so many IOI’s, she asked me what my girlfriend thought of me being here, told me I looked better with my shirt undone a bit more. Every time I thought I was getting close she shot me down, heavily… Started taking the piss out of me to my wing and told me she knew my game too well. So I thought fuck it and left to rejoin the rest of my party in a different booth, she was sat talking to my wing, who she thought was gay.
About 3am we were getting set to leave when she approached and asked if I was going back to hers with her… Did I really have to think about it? I got back to hers and found out she was in love with herself… the moment I stepped foot in the door I knew I wasn’t getting any. She brought me back to show off, she just wouldn’t shut up, she was trying so hard to convince me she wasn’t a bimbo it was unreal. She even got out documents to show me her qualifications, like she was trying to convince herself she had made it. Got to admit, I could wait to leave, and then she kissed me. We kissed for a bit, then when I thought I might be getting lucky, she gave me the biggest fuck off I’ve ever had… “Would you like me to draw you a map back to your hotel?”
I got back at 6:30am soaked cause it was raining, but she did say thanks, sent me a nice text and then I went to sleep.
The thing about me, I can open… very well, but then I struggle, mid-talk is hard, then the close I fail with… epicly. But last night I approached 3 girls, got 2 positive responses and one was a cock block from a fat chick. I got a Kiss, a phone number and a map back to my hotel!!!
Nest weekend out in Boston Lincs, to polish up on some things, I am going t field test as much as i can for two weeks time when im back home! Then its time for the real game in London!
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