I met a girl a few weeks back. Hung out a few times but not in any environment to isolate for a kiss close. However her interest was very pronounced.

Unfortunately, due to scheduling issues we haven't seen each other for 2 weeks. In that time, she responded actively with emails and texts. I was very careful not to send more than 2 or 3 emails/texts a week though.

As always here is the last sequence of events:

Last tues: I called her to keep connected. We were both busy so I gave her a 15 min call just to joke around.

Last wed: following day, I had a day off work. So I called her to go out but she didn't answer.

Confusingly - she called me back in the afternoon but I wasn't around to answer the call.

She ended up texting me a long message apologizing for being busy and that she would call me. I told her that it was alright, but i was going to be pretty busy due to work and that I would call her later (no specified time).

Sunday I knew was a day off for us both. So I decided to call her (four days between contact). No answer. I sent her a quick follow up text (I never do voicemails since so many girls dont seem to check them) telling her to call me back.

Currently, no reply. Did I come off as too needy by calling on tuesday, then wednesday when she was busy?

Not really. Shes probably just being a bitch. Most girls are bitches.

You only called her 3 times so she might legitimately be busy and forgetting.

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It's always boggled me how girls can get suddenly lose attraction seemingly without indicator. To me, 'forgetting' is just an IOD.

Last week she's sending me long emails and wordy, extravagant texts. This week, nothing.

Sometimes, no matter how precisely you play the game, it seems like its just out of your control.

Brings me back to a time I was dating this really laid back girl for 3 months. Everything is going well. All of a sudden she stopped returning calls. 2 weeks of silence later I get some weird text about how she was offended that I kept bringing up class-based politics in discussion and that her family is upper class jewish and she takes offence to Marxist leanings (WTF? Yeh I know).

Goddam minefield between getting the number and any sort of close.

haha exactly. Girls are a mystery and they will always do things out of our control.

Savoy said if a girl flakes there is really nothing we could do. It could be one of billions of possibilities to why a girl stops speaking to us.

I gamed a Brittish HB8 in the U.S. We hooked up for some time and I got the number. She always texted me back, but after some time she just stopped answering me and lost the desire to see me. Why? I never did anything wrong?

The answer: Girls always do things out of a guys control haha

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