I mean, I have friends but the thing is, I never go out with them even though I know they do g out. SO im wondering how can I get invited to go with them

you invite them to some party.
show social proof.
your in.

get better friends. Yours sound like jerks if they won't invite their friends to the party.

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Hey man! I think you missed the point of the pick up art entirely when it comes to the idea of building a social lifestyle. Being people of the community,we have the ability to create a social lifestyle by ourselves without the approval or assistance of other people, because we have skills and tactics to bring people into our lives. So when it comes to trying to get in with your friends, FUCK THAT. Build your own life with people you choose, from the skills you learn in the community.

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Hmmm ok cool, You build your own lifestyle, but try getting
invited to the Grammys or MTV awards (I've been to both, although only
the australian MTV awards) based on building your own lifestyle. I'm not
just picking up girls, I'm picking up cash, friends, fame and girls all in one combined effort.

I believe in building your own reality, but not if it conflicts with reality. And I'm yet to see anyone apply pickup techniques exclusively to pickup and do as well as me in life in general. I'm not satisfied with having sex with a 9 or a 10, I do that every week or so, I want a full life or 10s.
A 10 in my income, a 10 in the type of people I hang with, a 10 in the influence I have on the world around me, a 10 in my health(mental and physical) and yes, a ten (or two) on my arm.

If anyone wants to actually talk about their lifestyle in comparison to mine pm me because I'd be interested to discuss

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Even the most naturally gifted can learn to become better.

Hmmm ok cool, You build your own lifestyle, but try getting
invited to the Grammys or MTV awards (I've been to both, although only
the australian MTV awards) based on building your own lifestyle. I'm not
just picking up girls, I'm picking up cash, friends, fame and girls all in one combined effort.

I believe in building your own reality, but not if it conflicts with reality. And I'm yet to see anyone apply pickup techniques exclusively to pickup and do as well as me in life in general. I'm not satisfied with having sex with a 9 or a 10, I do that every week or so, I want a full life or 10s.
A 10 in my income, a 10 in the type of people I hang with, a 10 in the influence I have on the world around me, a 10 in my health(mental and physical) and yes, a ten (or two) on my arm.

If anyone wants to actually talk about their lifestyle in comparison to mine pm me because I'd be interested to discuss

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Even the most naturally gifted can learn to become better.

I agree with some of the postings here. Here are some of the things I would advise which has helped me:

1. Don't be the follower but the followed.
2. Do have parties and invite people (particularly women)
3. Constantly improve on yourself and your lifestyle.
4. Always be making new friends.
5. Do go out with or without your friends
6. Never give up...

Best,

J-Dub

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Its better to be the predator than the prey.

You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

become more independent and build your own lifestyle. going out on your own is great cause most guys dont have the balls to do it!

I going long drive many time. I invite my friend for going logn drive. But my friend not invite me.

i sayu become the party leader and make ur plans and invite ppl to join you.

I had "friends" do that to me when I was "AFC".

I ended up ditching them. And I told em how I feel about their cowardice and bitchy behavior.

My suggestion: ditch 'em. If they don't invite you out it means they don't CARE about you. Find new friends, better friends.

Chances are they don't think highly of you as a friend and even you find ways to force into the party, they won't be nice or sociable towards you and you end up dlv.

Your should be the prize. They should be going after you. How to do that? Read up more posts here in th forum for the answers.

Good luck.

LOL all these replies sound like bitchy 13 year old girls.

INVITE YOUR FRIENDS ALONG TO THINGS WITH YOU, THEN THEY WILL SEE THAT YOU ARE FUN AND THEY WILL INVITE YOU PLACES AS WELL.

Simple as that.

^ Sometimes, things are not that simple when you think about it, especially humans.. You see, people can look at you and wonder if you would be suitable or compatible to connect and hang out with their social circle and outings. Sometimes its imaginable, sometimes its not. When its not, they won't invite you in. Openness is also a factor.

Now the best advice I would give you, is to be closer to the people who could give you invitations. Be better friends with them. Call them up 1 on 1 for simple things like some lunch, a game of pool, or basketball, or whatever you do. Find out what they do for fun or in their spare time and jump into commonalities.

They dont seem to be very good friends to me. If you would have to get them to invite you along it wouldnt be so nice anyway. Get other friends... Or go out alone.

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