hey guys, im not sure if this belongs in this section but i just had my first encounter yesterday. it wasn't sex or anything but just fingering. i managed to get back my girlfriend's LMR and started fingering her. but im not sure what happened.

its either she was not wet enough or she's a virgin. i think its both. she started saying that it hurt.
can i get some tips as to what i should do in bed next time or how to get her wet and how to finger her?
or just some basic tips as to doing better. giving her a great time and a great orgasm. tips please. i'm totally new to this sex/fingering thing. thanks!! really need this help.

Look up the Vin DiCarlo Escalation Ladder, it really helped me out.

Also look up "David Shade". His material is supposed to be pretty good.

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Don't hate, just dominate.

build it up slowly, be patient.


Most guys rush it, it turns the girl off.

you start making out, then you build that up till she's dry humping you. this should get her a little wet. Atleast if you aren't a terrible kisser

slip your hand inside her panties, slowly start to rub her clit. speed it up bit by bit. (GENTLE, your hand isn't supposed to be like sand paper. rubbing your hand in a circular motion usually does it)
When she's wet, go in with you middle finger, curve it up so you are hitting her g spot (a ribbled cushion like spot) this way you are stimulating her gspot and her clit at the same time.
in other words you are rubbing her clit with your palm and her g spot with your finger.

build this up till she cums. there is no speed limit. ( the only requirement is that she's wet, if she's dry like sand fast movements are going to hurt her)


read her body language to see what turns her on is a big one here. different girls like different things.

some like it rough, some like it soft. yada yada

God Jav, your making me wet in my seat right now. But good advice, seems like you got your sex game handled. Anyways for this guy if you really want to become great at sex then check this shit out. Your girl will be going crazy. Trust me. Here you go buddy, this should get your girl more than satisfied.

http://www.4shared.com/document/WaurFpV ... _Secre.htm

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Cut the shit, time to fuck.

thanks guys!! this really helped me out! anyway i was wondering. when a girl is about to come does it feel like she needs to pee?! i know this sounds stupid but.. curious.