Just get off this forum if you're under 18. You have much more important things to worry about if you guys are 16.


Seriously... you guys cant even legally have sex yet, no offense. You're just going to be confusing yourselves. Start with the game when you're about 20.

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exactly! that's what i'm imposing. most p.u.a sites, blog, newsletter room have a disclaimer. my advise to all under age, minors hi-school guys: enjoy your life, enjoy what you are doing now, hook up on your own natural techniques. this comes only once in a lifetime. for me...hi-school years and teenhood are the most exciting time of my life!
your techniques (not exactly all) ie playful, teasing, not caring enough for the outcome are some p.u.a use to achieve success. ENJOY AND HAVE FUN!!!

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I'd have to strongly disagree with your statements. and further more question you, you cant neg in high school because girls neg back, whereas once they become smarter wiser, and sassier, they stop? it's quite the opposite.

Not true. If these are the responses you are getting from negs, and this goes for everyone, you are negging incorrectly. You should either learn to socially calibrate better, or don't neg. But it's ineffectiveness is not due to the imperviousness of the high school girls, but your own inability to utilize them.

read my post above. Negs DO and I repeat DO work on 16 year old girls. once again, if it got to the point where you were having a shit test battle, and it got heated beyond playful teasing, THATS NOT NEGGING!! Thats called... Being a fucking douche.

Either learn how to neg properly, or don't neg.

THE MAIN POINT!

Dont blame the tool, blame the user.

It's like saying this piano doesn't make pretty music when I play it, but I don't know how to play the piano..

So of course it does not flow with Rachmaninoff!

Helpful TIP:
The response to a neg should be laughter, if it's not that, you are doing it wrong

Helpful HINT:
I love negs, but for those who aren't ready to handle them... There are other ways to disqualify yourself without negging..
::Body language
::Verbally disqualifying yourself without negging "You would so be my type if I weren't gay"
::Not being needy
::AND Not acting like a wuss.

Take it Use it...

but it's not the negs that are a problem, but yourself.

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HEy i'm 16 !! xD
And in my country we can have sex when we are 16 ( LEGAL) ^^

But i also learn the game now but i don't use it really in practice ( maybe some kino or DHV story routines but not the real 'sh!t' )
I just preparing myself for The real game when i am 18/20+ ^^

Just learning some theory ^^

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Haha thats true actually. The United States has too many stupid laws.

I totally agree with you though! What I am trying to say is at 16 you do not need to worry about the game. You can be very direct with girls and they may actually enjoy that more than doing a routine!

When you are young, you do not need to worry about showing a girl you are amazing, she just accepts you for who you are. Plus when I was 16 I HATED reading books haha.

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Muahahaha i read books and i watch videos ( big money expensive videos but i found a way to get free, sttt )

Yea here you can be very direct, we don't need neg or like that. If she isn't interested, they will say it at a friendly way

But i have girlfriend now, so i stick to her ^^

I only use PUA to help other people(maybe theory instructor ^^ ) and to get a relationship.

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Im 17 years old and I've been using negging in my approaches and I didn't had the problem of being harsh or impolite ... i always get a laugh

Its all in the delivery... and you should choose your negs wisely
I use lines like: are you always like this? How do you hang out with her? You spit on me (if she's super hot)

In the end, the materials that worked for someone does not necessarily work for another so you should experiment and find what work for you

yes some stuff work, but some stuff isn't tooo good for now our age 16-17

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i feel that some PUA techniques will work with high school girls, but then again most high school game is based on popularity. That's just where i came from, but it is not always the case.

hmmm yeah

humor + leadership = would bring you far away

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Game only applies partially at 16/17/18.

Most of it, admittedly, is social proof.

Most MM doesn't apply, but some DeAngelo and Swinggcat stuff works.

Basically though, just learn some kino and then get closes at parties on the weekend. You need a big social circle for this.

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Im 16, and in the past three months I've stepped up my game to a completely new level. Here's what I've done and seen work at a high school level.

-Negging works. If your negs do anything other than make her giggle you're doing it completely wrong and you're not negging. In fact, from whats worked for me, i think it should be called teasing or being playful.

-Join a sports team. Whenever I say I'm on the varsity wrestling and football team (no big feat, our school is tiny), girls immediately go "Oh my God! Thats so cool!" and its probably the best DHV for highschool.

-Work your way up through what you've got. I used to hang out with all the nerdy losers. I worked my way to basically being their "leader." Then, i moved up to the lower "ranks" of the nerdy-kids-who-hang-out-with-girls group. Once i was on top of them (and joined sports) i was accepted into the normal kids group. Now I've moved up to into the cool kids group. Social ladder in highschool is crazy important.
The same applies with girls. Social proof is huge. My very first girlfriend was pretty ugly, but she was obsessed with me. Her friends, who were better looking, always heard about how "awesome" i was. So, i moved on to her friends. And on to their friends. And then over into a hotter more popular group. Just keep going. Climb that ladder!

-Text and phone game is huge! Send messages that could possibly have sexual connotations. If she's established you as kind of a teaser, she'll just giggle, but the thought still runs through her head. And if you do it right, it works wonders.

-Girls are usually really nice about rejection. They'll say "Lets just be friends. Ok?" and they'll still hang out with you (if you're not creepy).

-Kino escalate fast. I recommend reading DiCarlo's Escalation Ladder. I've used it dozens of times now, and it has never once failed me.

-Be funny. I don't really know how to explain this other than be confident in everything you say. Don't be the kid who makes jokes in class that would be funny if the funny kid had said them. Watch that funny kid and try to copy him.

-Speak alot, with confidence, and at the right pace. I learned this from a friend who talks nonstop, says alot of things that aren't funny, and he says the stupidest things I've ever heard anyone say. But he gets TONS of hot chicks. How? When he talks, its confident and no one feels awkward when says something not funny or stupid. So, when he says things that are funny (about once in every 5 attempts), girls forget the other stuff and only remember that he's hilarious. Because he's constantly talking, he seems like he's in control, even though none of us guys ever listen to him.

-Throw parties if you can, or at least call everyone together for social events. Throwing parties for UFC fights and bonfires seriously helped me climb the social ladder.

-Get a reputation as kind of being a "Badboy" while still being nice and playful. You don't need to vandalize stuff or smoke crack (i recommend you don't). I realized this when i showed up to school with a bruise that looked like a hickie. Every girl i talked to noticed, and all i did when they asked what happened was say "Ohhh, i just got hit with something." They asked what and i said "It was like a pole or a bat or something." The girls immediately assumed it was a hickie. I didn't act like i was hiding anything, and it wasn't a big deal. The responses in body language from them was incredible. It was like they all of a sudden realized I was sexual and that they could be sexual with me.

-The last thing i learned is that after you've established attraction (my definition is that the girl likes you, and thinks that you consider her special) super cheezy shit works wonders. Stupid forwards, cheezy love poems, all that stuff. In highschool, girls apparently think that they fall totally in love every time they like a guy.

So ya, thats my take on highschool game so-far. I'm still pretty new, but the results I've gotten from the past few months have been incredible. Hopefully this helps someone. Good luck guys!

I only learn and practice kino escalation techniques, openers and closers. I pretty much create my own shit for the most part to be honest. Negging doesn't seem to be useful at our stage of the game

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Nothing in pick up applies to all women. There's no such thing as rejection... they're just playing hard to get.

I'm 15, I don't live in USA or UK, but in my country girls are highly confident and so are most of the guys.
They have to be negged and have kino or else its not gonna work, and being a higher value is the key. The system is still the same, you should neg her, but softly, for example I don't like your shirt. Look at how much they get approached that's how much they have to be negged. DHV stories and all this crap has to be done as usual, just neg more softly. Most of the girls I know have been approached a lot so I neg them in tiny things but a lot.

Different people mature at different speeds, different cultures have different people, differences need to be compensated for. The boy is right to have realised that at his school techniques like negging don't work too well and I think you need to realise what will work best for you. Personally I live in the UK, sex is legal at 16, im 19 and seem to attract girls older than me 22,24,20's the 16 year olds are just impressed by my car and ability to buy alcohol but negging them just pisses them off.