Hey so we're not techniquely in a relationship, I dont know exactly what it is. We've already expressed our feelings to each other and I've f-closed but just recently she's been playing me hot and cold. What do you do when a girl does this?? Please help me out.

Have you told her that you want a relationship?

iv had the same problem.... so hard.

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Law of Attraction

Hmm it could be her own insecurities of not knowing exactly what you want. She could be trying to protect herself from the inevitable hurt if you don't feel the same way as she does. She may want a serious relationship, but can't read what you want.

She may also be totally insecure of getting into a relationship with you if she has been hurt in past relationships (cheated on, etc.).

And sorry if this sounds blunt but maybe she just isn't that into you. And is just keeping you around for the sake of having someone interested in her - and someone to fuck whenever she likes.

I know you say you have already told each other of the feelings you have, however, these can change and maybe she has decided she doesn't want a boyfriend anymore. Obviously this is worst case scenario.

Therefore, what you can do is:

1. Sit down and talk to her about what she wants and what you want
2. Leave things alone and continue to let her play with your mind

It is up to you - personally I would go for option one. If you two sit down and have an honest heart to heart talk, you should reach a mutual understanding and at least you will both know where you stand with each other. Realtionships are hard work and if there is no communication in a relationship, it will not work out.

When two people come together in a relationship, something is created that is different and more complex than those two people on their own —a system is created. The most important feature of a relationship is communication. Relationships are established, maintained, and changed by communicative interaction among both parties involved.


Any way, I hope this helps a little...

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....Thought you might like a girl's opinion....

lol ^^^^

its like your on her hook, get her on your hook...

or sit her down and talk to her, and if she doesnt like u in that way, she will probs lie so people dont think shes a slut....

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Law of Attraction

What do you do when a girl does this??

Throw her own bullshit back at her.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

Brilliant!!!
loL so "SiNfUl"

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