Hey all. Just thinking out loud here...

Been at this PUA thing for about a month or so. I have gotten really good at opening and negging. I can pretty much elicit a positive response from just about any set that I open and I never fail to get a good laugh from my stories and negs. Here are a few of my favorites:

1) Running my 80s movies routine....

Me: What's your favorite 80s movie?
HB: Huh...What do you mean? ( you would be surprised how often that happens)
Me: That would be a movie made between 1980 and 1989

2)

HB: So where do you live?
Me: Why? so you can stalk me?

3)

Me: So...I'll bet you have a lot of cats. (just used this one today. Such a subtle little neg, I love it!)

The problem that I have is that I cannot stop negging a girl. I literally do it every chance I get and never hold back. Part of that is my personality and that's why my friends and co workers get a kick out of me. No one really gets offended but I dont feel that I am really building any comfort either.

Anyone else ever run into this problem?

My rule is..
3-4 negs for a HB10.
2-3 for a HB9.
0-1 for a 8.

Anything lower then that DON'T USE NEGS.

If you neg to much then you might be deemed the 'asshole'.
So just try to stick with as many as permitted for her rating.

A neg is used to disarm her. After that is completed I don't see the point in using anymore negs.

Unless of course your running the whole C&F routine.

Neutralize with "Im joking." if you think you overnegged.

its ok man, most of the guys do it. After you spend some time in the field, you will eventually calibrate

Be careful with the 'Im joking' tone.
She might take it as another insult that you think shes stupid and doesn't understand your just messing with her.

Girls are onto the neg theory big time it seems to be what all pua and others got from the game I even remeber it being mentioned on the news, mystery was being grilled by a reporter typically.

Mystery exposed his method.
It was his he can do what he wants with it.

Being that us PUAs are a resourceful bunch we NEED to come up with our own material.

overnegging .... well if you find it entertaining you should do it ... if it's a problem you shouldn't do it.

most guys make on big mistake ..they neg when they open on approach but they don't respect the personal space of the person and they don't smile ....
a neg with hostile body language ....

using value judgements is not really productive because a 6 could think like a 10 and a 10 could think like 6 - so the number of negs isn't really appropriate, calibration is.

negs are not meant to build comfort , negs are a way to spike her emotions and not telegraphing your interest..... and above all ... it's a pure form of self entertainment ... I LUVE NEGS...

'' hey i have seen you on chat roullette'''

if she says the knows all about negging and pua shit .... il reply '' what are you talking about .. ? '' if she goes ballistic stay cool and say something like '' why are you being so weird ?'' on 2 occasions i had girls who knew about pickup and were saying how dumb it was .... actually i was not negging i was just really joking , now everytime i see her i do a neg in slow motion

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Like I said that is my general rule.
I have not yet to meet a 10 who acts like a 6.

I have met a 6 that acted like a 10 though.
She defiantly had some attitude on her.

Which makes me wonder why girls think that bitchiness is 'cute'.
Maybe its the same reason guys think that being a asshole is badass.

Hmm.. I feel a new topic coming along.

YES I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS MOMENT ! lets talk about how good looking i am !

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Hey everybody my names Lodewijkp acting cocky around girls just isn't enough for me.
So I also do it when I'm sitting on my computer talking to a bunch of guys on a forum.

maybe im a girl ;P i never said i was a dude

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What a twist!