This weekend, I was at a sports tourney with my sports club. I am only 18, and the girls age varied from 15 to 20, so I was having a good time.
In such a weekend, you notice that you become a group. A certain type of the so called 'own world' starts to form, and you have no clue what happens at home. All the people are in the moment, having a good time.
Of course things 'happen' during such a weekend, even though it was forbidden to sleep in someone else's tent. Several make outs happened, among them there was one which got me thinking:
The girl was a pretty girl. A bit cold-hearted, not too bright and probably a bit self-centered. 15 years old. She wasn't constantly hit on, but my guess is that she knows she's pretty. She has a boyfriend though.
The boy was a 16 year old loser. From all the guys around there, I'd portray him as the wannabe, incongruent, sloppy game or no game at all, not handsome, not smart. He's not even a nice guy...
So eventually they made out, after which she regretted it of course, and nothing more happened. Due to her cold behavior she can't get every boy out there, but she certainly can get better than this. (okay, maybe I'm acting a bit jaleous, but I'm trying to describe the facts here as good as possible

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So it got me wondering: Why is the girl risking her relationship to make out with him? Is it because of the own world-vibe hanging there? And if so, should we then try to get every girl out there on a tourney, simply because we can? Can we trow the moral problems overboard simply because girls do too?
Love to hear your thoughts on this.