ok well before anything i just want to say ive been reading alot of what you guys have to say about everything and ive finally decided to make a change for the better
DAY 1:
Had my first day of college and sat myself next to an hb8 as i walked in (something id never do) and tried to make friends. Everything went well until i found out she was already taken and i figured i dont know enough to snatch a girl away so i just played the nice guy...
After class i went to work,after work i decided to go to the mall and see if anything interesting would happen because i changed my clothing style (metroish). Note: i never go to the mall...ever
as soon as i walked in i was immediately approached by an HB9 scene girl lookin and hb5. the 5 asked if i had a gf and i said no...(was i right to say that?) and she quickly introduced me to her hb9 friend. She was very shy and hardly said a word which struck me odd, nonetheless she managed to ask me for my number .

As soon as she got my number i ejected cus i really had no idea what to say hahaha. So we send a couple texts back and forth. Then like a couple hours ago i texted her again asking what she was doing. She called right after and thats where it all went down hill. I told her to take me out to the movies and that got a couple laughs but my friend was over and they soon started to argue over the phone.
After that she asks me where i work and i told her i couldnt tell, i really didnt want to as i work in something thats so not pua haha. She got mad, said whatever and hung up.
lol im so stupid but i think i did quite well for my 1st day change

PS: i told her dont trip and that really angered her LOL so now i know not to ever say that to a girl again haha

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Huh. You pretty much got opened. That's flattering. You know what, that girl worked pretty damn hard for you, you should give her another chance, even though she did trip out (assuming it's not some kind of scam). It's fine that you said you didn't have a girlfriend, there's a lot of good reasons for that. I think the only thing you screwed up on was being evasive about where you worked. You work where you work, like it or not, that's part of you. You might hate your job, but you have to put a positive spin on it otherwise you look like a schmuck. I mean, why would a grown man do a job he hates (most of us do, though).

mhmmm thanks for your critique minsok, i guess your right about telling people of my job but ehhh

Day 2:
So today actually started with a call at 1 in the morning from hb9. I didnt answer ( i couldnt talk cus i would wake the family ) and i texted her ? she called again and i texted: what do you want?
her:to talk
I: tomorrow
Her: noo
I: fine then in a week
her: why a week
I: a week cus u need to calm down (LOL read last post)
her: im sorry
then she calls again, i answer and i end up talking to her friend HB5 and let me tell u
they were out of it lol(DRUNK). I tell her to pass me to Hb9 and i can hear the hb9 say tell him i said F U. so i just said ok (keeping my cool) and continued to talk to hb5, she told me that HB9 had a bf. I asked, she would cheat on her bf? and she said ya who gives a F. after a while i grew bored and told her to call tomorrow or something.
College time soon came but nothing interesting happened. My AA stopped me from talking to any girls in class.
Later i receive a text from hb9 just saying hi and we just have a simple short conversation.
And that was my day

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Er, well you and this girl sound like a good match, you both make interesting conversation choices and like to punish each other when you don't do what the other wants. Reread what you wrote as your texts, they came off really harsh. This girl was reaching out to you, this is when you're supposed to reward her, but you totally punished her. What she did yesterday doesn't matter because you DON'T CARE, so you can easily forget.

But to the point. Please, please don't waste your college years like I did. Meeting women with common interests and intelligence will never be easier than it is while you're in college. You already have something to talk about right out the gate. If I knew about game when I went to college, I'd still have a loyal harem of great friends and pivots today. So. Redeem me. ReDEEM ME!!!!!!!!!

lol minsok, your words on college shall forever be my inspiration. I will redeem you hahaha
Day 3:
Ok so today started off the usual, just me going to college. Ive spotted my target HB8 and moved waaaay over to where she sits, well 2 seats down. I honestly really tried to come up with something witty and funny to say but i just couldnt.
After class i tried to open up to people and just simply asked for directions to the library (i know where it is) to get rid of some AA but even that had me shaking lol.

Then it was off to the mall again to waste time since ive got nothing to do. I went into one of the stores and saw a HB8 cashier, i bought something and with a simple question "so has it been busy today?" she completely lit up and we had a conversation. We got to talking about how her day was blahblahblah... and ughh she asked me where i worked. I just said i worked with technology, and she gave me a OH look with a pause haha, in which i quickly saved myself with saying "yeah im a geek, but im still awesome" which got her laughing. Then the damn other customers ruined it cus they were waiting lol and we parted.

Its been a while and i look at my phone and its one of those LOVE forward text things from HB9 yay! (i can not tell when she wants to talk as she has mood swings) So i text her back and we set up a date for this sat, (and yes im a loser, this is my first date and not just a lunch ive had those before). One thing is though, its a party and a hispanic kind of party. So the music requires a specific kind of dancing and I cannot dance for shi*. Amazingly im not to nervous about it and while texting she asked me if i knew how to dance.
I: Nope but ill just wing it
her: hahaha ok

And that was my day


PS: I was thinking I'd do something to get over my AA and i came across a post from someone i forgot whom, that stuck his finger up his nose and greeted people like that. That post had me laughing so hard and it seems like it would work

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Totally agree. I too wasted my college years doing the long term relationship with ONE girl. Thinking back on it now, college was a virtual see of vagina just waiting to be f-clozed. So sad, so sad....

You must REDEEM me as well!!!

As for the HB 9 that closed you, this should be an easy f-close for you. Good luck!

Add me to the list of former AFCs to be redeemed. Like Clozer I found a hottie my first year of college and spent the whole time with her then dumped her when she got loopy on me. So, please fuck everything HB10 in that place for me.

Man, this is kind of a common theme. Looks like you have a whole community of reformed AFC's to make up for. Well, don't be weird. You're already really subconscious about what comes out of your mouth, you don't fix that by doing socially retarded things. That will backfire. You fix that by caring less. People aren't as smart or perceptive as you give them credit for, I promise you. They aren't going to dissect and judge things you say as much as you do.

You'll get by just fine saying the first stupid thing that comes to your head, quoting Family Guy, making "That's what she said" jokes. Actually listen to how other people talk, they aren't smarter than you. They might be faster or seem wittier, but that's because they don't muzzle their flow of thought. Consider a public speaking class, especially if you're scared of the idea. Overcoming fears is how bravery works, my protege.

lol too much pressure! thanks guys
Clozer, one of the puas i most look up to, if only F closing was as easy to me as it is to you, i shall keep u on
my personal list of puas i must redeem haha. Phazzle i shall try my best to fuck every hb10 and keep in mind not to settle for one girl. And once again minsok, your words of wisdom have hit me hard lol. I like the idea of a public speaking class

Day 4:
K well today during class i couldnt stop thinking about what you guys said, "college being the best time to learn" and i told myself i gotta talk to that HB8 even if she plain out rejects me. BUT the damn teacher would seriously not shut up and when he did it was complete silence. During his lectures he kept telling jokes that constantly kept us laughing and i kept making eye contact with hb8 each time we laughed or smiled. I took it as an IOI (maybe it wasnt but whatever) and decided after class i would make my move.

So class ends and i purposely take my sweet ass time so as to leave at the same time she does. Im not sure what was happening but my god, she took forever as well (Just sat there moving at the same speed i was). Finally we both get up being the last 2, she looks at me smiles and i swear i was gonna say something but she just bucked it out of there when i took one step toward her (lol i dont think im that ugly). That sucked but when i walked up the stairs and turned the corner which took a while she was right there just holding the door for me. I said hey thanks and was gonna say something else but she just smiled and bucked it again!

I dont know what i did wrong? i leave

As im waiting for my friend which will take about an hour, i just laid down on top of a wall and looked up at the sky. LOL i know this sounds corny but i completely spaced out and was thinking about other puas like clozer minsok blah blah out there and if i could really do this. I still dont know but in the meantime i hadnt noticed that 2 Hb8s had walked right up to me like a foot away from me. They asked "what are you doing and started giggling. Said the first thing i could think
"I DONT KNOW" with a smile, they laughed and
got to talkin and now im meeting up with them on monday

then i went to work and did nothing after that. what a day

and thanks for the support guys

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That works. Maybe that girl was just shy, maybe she barely speaks English. Even if you don't figure it out now, there's no pressure. I still did pretty well in college even though I was AFC and kind of sinister. And I'm much better now, so no real complaints. Sometimes, I just get nostalgic about all the missed opportunities I can clearly see now that I've studied game. It makes me jealous because I know you are going to be a lot more successful than I was since you're already looking into it. At the end of the day, all you really have to do it say some stupid thing that comes to mind; that's all it takes to get your foot in the door. Just walk up to that girl and tell her you want to walk her to class, (sounds more alpha than asking for permission) maybe she was stalling at the end of the class to give you time to approach her.

damn how long has it been? life without internet was definitely lame.
hmm my posts seem all wussbagish now that i look at them lol.

first let me tell minsok something, sorry man but i was never able to fully talk to the girl idk what was wrong. She was super quiet and was just pretty much a loner for the entire class. Gave up on that
So throughout my semi semester...i managed to snag 4 numbers and made alot more friends (plan to increase my social circle).
Every number i got, the girl asked me for my number I found out that right when we're about to part ways i just turn my head to the left and take 1 sidestep to the left then the girl sees that im about to leave and she says give me your number!

haha i know this is irrelevant but i found out that some table in the quad has some like magical powers that draws girls to it. Thats where i got first number, an hb8 who is apparently pursuing the same major as me. I saw her eating chips with a disgusted look on her face and all i said was "they must taste really good huh?" and she started laughing. Conversation continued blahblahblah and she asked for my number the 2nd time i met her.

Then theres the 4th number that i got an hb7. I believe im developing oneitus for her. Started out sitting next to her and asked her what book do we need for this class? She showed me (this book looks like 2 or 3 bricks put together and shes petite). I smiled and asked her if shes ever fallen back from all the weight from her backpack. She laughed and we hung out after class everyday while waiting for my friend. I played the cube and the rings routine, LOL she loved the cube (i found out she had a bf) and during the rings routine, she asked me if that ever actually works with the ladies . I was caught so off guard by that and all i could say muster was "maybe...". she said thats cute and so on.

College is done for now, i parted on good terms with 3 of the girls. Im currently still texting with the 2 i just wrote about and just waiting for college to start again in a month.

Heres my problem
1.My phone game is absoooolutely terrible!! I kid you not. I try to sound interesting and all that results is awkward silences and short calls.
2. Usually when i talk to the girls besides the hb7 there would be alot of awkward silences and the girls would try and start the convo again. It's so sad really, i can still see myself look away as i had nothing to say...
3. I dont have a beard


P.S. the first hb9 girl. We ended up kinda fighting but i dont really care about her lol

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sounds like your on the right track... plus your getting opened by girls.. always a good thing!!!

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Me too. Never get in a LT relationship at college. Fuck till your balls drop off.

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ello gentlemen...
yes ghost rider it is very much
1 problem . Ok well truth be told, Ive never taken a girl out 1 on 1 so in order to get laid i believe i have to learn date game first.

So today was really hot! I managed to get a number while mowing my lawn. It was a group who approached me. Well technically, the little brother of one of them approached trying to sell me candy and i just politely said im good. I noticed them giggling and all of them were saying "your cute"( i was in raggedy clothes and bright red shoes like hobo status ). I believe it was like HB9, 2hb8, 2hb7, and an hb 6. I smiled and said "Who here wants my number" like a man! I tried to get at hb9 but the damn hb7s were blocking my way and i ended up giving one of them my number. And in the end my lawn looked quite nice

I cant believe I never noticed I'd had such a great potential wing man. I'd always been wondering which of my friends could be one and i finally found him. This dude is a playa! Every time i see him he's got a new girl and tales of vagina.

Ok so my problem. When i was talking one of the girls mentioned how skinny i am and poked fun at me. Not really insults just calling me string bean. How do I counter that? shes not the first one...

2. Why am I so damn scared of parties? My friends have always been inviting me over to many ever since i can remember but pessimistic thoughts are the only things racing through my head. (Ive been to some but not since ive changed)

Things Learned/Gained:
An awesome wingman
A lawnmower is a peacoking item
Women are not afraid to speak their minds in packs

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You're a string bean because you work hard. That's why I'm so skinny. If I want to be funny I say, "Yeah... I blame my mother." I got most of her features which is why I'm typically called pretty instead of cute or handsome.