Okay so i decided I'm gonna do the same thing Chopper is doing. Starting tommarow i am going to document my success of each day, and the things i learned and can change.

Sticking Points: Social Anxiety and Kino Escalation

Background: 15, California, 5 months in the community

Thank you guys be sure to check out the reports when i start tommarow night!

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Awesome is definitely an understatement

Good luck BenG,

Will look forward to watching you progress.


wowo

Awesome BenG, I can't wait to watch your progress!

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"Losers always whine about their best. Winners go home and fuck the prom queen."

Day 1

Okay, so I decided today to go hangout at the fallbrook mall and to go into every store. I didn't get any numbers, i did fail some times, and yeah, it wasn't the most successful day.

I walked to fallbrook. I first went to trader joes, everyone was very nice to me, the sample guy told me to come back whenever i want . Then i walked to this sport place, and i asked about tank top and shorts, they have synthetic material instead of conton(sound like a hoax)

Then i ran my first set. I know this guy Casey from the store Pacsun, and were good friends. So i walk in, and see an HB8, so i ask her what she is looking for, then i notice the works at the store. I tell her, oh because i was gonna hit on you. So we have a small conversation, i didn't build enough attraction, so i couldn't get the number, got the "i have a boyfriend" response.

I then walked over to Mervyns really failed this approach. I went over to this girl, her brother was on the ground and i said. You are a good mother, let your kid play on the ground. THat failed utterly, she gave me the WTF look, and then yeah, that didn't go so well. I walked into a few more stores Petsmart, Walmart, and DSW, and didn't flirt with any girls, but i took pictures of stuff i want.

and yeah, that was it, my first day of sarging : )

i learned that the longer i stay in an approach the more comfortable it is for me. and that if i expect the approach to go longer it goes longer, if i expect the approach to go shorter, it goes shorter : ).

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Awesome is definitely an understatement

Day 2

Okay, so here is the update! i didn't get any closes today but i had a singificangtly better sarge, which I view as a success. As usual I walked from my house to the mall. This time only to topanga and back.

I walked through the macy's trying to greet everyone i could, because my mission was to socialize as an interesting person. Then i bought laces, and had a quick convo with the guy at journeys.

I then walked over to zumiez, hot topic, and buckle and had conversations. I then when to wetzels got some water and went downstairs to radioshack, after hearing that they have the Evo.

There is this customize booth in the mall, where the iron things on and make logos. I wanted to get a job over there. I walk over there and I talk to this HB8.5. I just tell her i like that logo, and i reccomend it. She smiles.

A guy then complements me on my element shirt, which makes me happy. I then walk upstairs and meet a 5 set, which i first thought were asian because tehy were playing DDR(my fucking stereotypes). I talked to one of them, asked her why they weren't studying for finals(assumed they were in highschool). I liked one of the girls but she was with her Bf.

I then walked over to this booth, and got a laugh out of this girl i've passed by numerous times by herself waiting for someone to look at her booth. So i decided to say Hi, and see if she wanted company, she said no. So i left, and went home.

I learned today, that a good conversation is alot harder to keep then a bad conversation, and that i should extend my conversations, find bridges to continue my conversations, and be a bit more creative. I had fun though and got some excersise, My successes for today

I got a laugh out of a girl
I felt good from a complement(usually don't get complements)
I got a smile out of a girl
I ran a whole block, i think it was like 1/4 of a mile.

I have to say it was a good day!

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Awesome is definitely an understatement

Im liking your positive attitude benG.

If you keep having fun and enjoying your experiences, good results are bound to come your way.

keep it up,


wowo