This is a post about stuff that doesnt matter but people have issues about.



1. She understands that you have read the mystery method and that you are trying to pick her up.

Doesnt matter at all! So, yes you are in a bar and talk to her, eeeh, yeah, obviously you are trying to pick her up, thats what people do. So you are a PUA, big deal, thats a good thing! I tell girls what I am and that works wonders.

2. She tells you she has a bf.

Doesnt matter at all. Who cares, if he cant keep his gf under control then he doesnt deserve her. Is it morally wrong to steal his gf? NO! She goes for what she thinks is best for her, why would you care about him, you never even met him. Will she be more difficult because of this? Maybe you wont know uintil you try. Regardless of if she has a bf or not, your game will not change.

3. There is a guy in the set.

Doesnt matter, if you game well enough he is an asset and not a problem.

4. She is older/younger than you.

Doesnt matter, attraction can still be built. Just game her like you always game anyone.

5. You are not caucasian.

Doesnt matter, if it is a big deal for her she is not worth the effort, shes a jerk. Your game skills will make your background unimportant.

6. You look less than good.

Doesnt matter. Yes, looks do help but you can pick up girls on skill alone. You compensate for your looks by being charming. Love is blind right? Yes, because ugly guys with game are more interesting than good looking guys with no game.

7. Your car isnt expensive.

Doesnt matter. You dont bring your car into the club do you? Plus if your game is so weak that a car will change her opinion of you, you are indeed weak. Build yourself up instead.

8. You lose the set.

Doesnt matter, there are a lot of sets around. Go for the next! Nobody gets every set he wants, just move on to the next one!

Thats all I can think of at the moment. Hope it helps guys.

Ezo

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Not all of us are okay with stealing girlfriends from other guys. Say what you want this is a moral issue at the end of the day.
This may need the side note of it does not matter as long as the two of you are LEGAL AGE. Yes I know there are people that sleep with people that are underage, but is it really worth the punishment? Especially if you are a guy (guys tend to get harsher punishments than girls do when they sleep with under age people)?

Agree and agree!

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Good post Ezo, on the age thing, if your game is good, women wont even ask your age a lot of the time or not to later on, a number close can even be worked by then.

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Been there, done it, oh and still doing it!

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Good post on blowing out of the water all the excuses our neurotic minds come up with on not approaching dames. My own voice-inside-my-head still comes up with a dozen more than that, but I'm working on it day by day.

Something that Ezo should probably clarify though is that there is a reason it actually DOES matter if she mentions any of those issues to you: If she's says any of those things out loud, it probably means you're not interesting enough for her, and that your conversational skills still need work.

Still, that's only a minor critique, since the whole point of this thread is to get off the bar stool, walk up to a dame, and make conversation with her....something my inner-game still has problems with.

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Geez Ezo, are you sure you are not a woman? You seem to understand us so well!! Here's a bit of confirmation on everything you said;

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1. She understands that you have read the mystery method and that you are trying to pick her up.

Doesnt matter at all! So, yes you are in a bar and talk to her, eeeh, yeah, obviously you are trying to pick her up, thats what people do. So you are a PUA, big deal, thats a good thing! I tell girls what I am and that works wonders.


Love it - think it's hot and flattering when a guy goes to effort to pick me up!


2. She tells you she has a bf.
Doesnt matter at all. Who cares, if he cant keep his gf under control then he doesnt deserve her. Is it morally wrong to steal his gf? NO! She goes for what she thinks is best for her, why would you care about him, you never even met him. Will she be more difficult because of this? Maybe you wont know uintil you try. Regardless of if she has a bf or not, your game will not change.


So true - it is all about her. If she goes off with someone else, she clearly doesn't care that much about her boyfriend or maybe the PUAs game is just much better than her boyfriends - I am yet to find someone to rival my man's PUA skills but that's just me! A girl with a boyfriend is more of a challenge so probably improves your game because if she doesn't go home with you, she still wins because she is still going home to the boyfriend.

3. There is a guy in the set.
Doesnt matter, if you game well enough he is an asset and not a problem.
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Can totally work to your advantage - use him as your wingman and make sure your game is awesome and your sweet


4. She is older/younger than you.
Doesnt matter, attraction can still be built. Just game her like you always game anyone.


My boyfriend is 10 years older than me and when I met him I thought he was my age! All because of his game


5. You are not caucasian.
Doesnt matter, if it is a big deal for her she is not worth the effort, shes a jerk. Your game skills will make your background unimportant.

Does not matter in the slightest. The game is where it's at. A lot of my female friends love African American guys because of their natural swagger


6. You look less than good.
Doesnt matter. Yes, looks do help but you can pick up girls on skill alone. You compensate for your looks by being charming. Love is blind right? Yes, because ugly guys with game are more interesting than good looking guys with no game.


My boyfriend is the sexiest thing to me in the world - when i first met him, I thought he was kinda cute but as soon as the gaming started, I fell head over heels


7. Your car isnt expensive.
Doesnt matter. You dont bring your car into the club do you? Plus if your game is so weak that a car will change her opinion of you, you are indeed weak. Build yourself up instead.

Haha that's so funny - the only girls who would care about this are the gold diggers which you do not want anyways!


8. You lose the set.
Doesnt matter, there are a lot of sets around. Go for the next! Nobody gets every set he wants, just move on to the next one!

True true. There are plenty more fish in the sea. Some girls might even give you a second chance if you make it up to her... (this has happened to me....)


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....Thought you might like a girl's opinion....

IT doesnt matter whether your black, hispanic, puerto rican, green, blue, orange.Its always on. If a girl says she doesent like you because your not a certain type of color then it means shes testing you. Its a fucking test guys. Shes trying to see if you can seperate yourself from the bunch. The average guy would walk away like a little bitch. A real PUA would see this as a joke and initiate the conversation.

Remember, this girl who deos this most of the time gets approached by tons of guys everyday. Seperate yourself from the bunch and show her that you have the balls instead of the 99.9% of chodes that approach her.

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Cut the shit, time to fuck.

Last time I checked I had stuff between my legs normally belonging on a man... But Ill check again... Yep, still there.

Thank you for the confirmations! I think a lot of the new (and old) members needed to see that, its always good when a girl agrees. People feel safe!

Keep posting, I enjoy reading your female perspective!

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Oooo, forgot this one...
Actually, I dont agree. Yes, it means that your conversational skills still need work but that goes without saying. Your conversational skills should ALWAYS!!!! be under construction!

It doesnt matter even if she mentions any of the points to you. Hey she tells you that you are a player. Yeah, so what, you are. Why hide it? She tells you that your car looks like shit. Yeah, maybe it does, but it gets you places. Maybe maybe maybe! The only way to lose is to care about shit like this.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Most of the time it is a shit test of the huge kind. But there are girls that just don't date people from a certain race for what ever reason. There are asian families around here that will only allow their daughters to date asian guys.

Yeah, but if she is attracted enough she will think "Fuck that".

Thats the point, as GirlfriendofaPUA said, it is all about her.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

True.