This is a huge problem for me and joining this site is my attempt to do something about my lack of success. I'm only 1.72m and girls always tend to go for the taller guys who are 6ft+. It doesn't help that i only feel attracted to short girls and they only like the taller guys. I just feel that i am not good enough because of this and it was something i could not control growing up. I know that i cannot game in clubs because it is a rubbish environment for someone of my physical stature to game in (i am not ugly and have a decent enough face) but i feel i need to talk to girls more in order to get them attracted to me whereas the tall good looking guys just get the girl in 5 minutes. The only thing i can seem to offer is the fact that i'm doing a very prestigious course at University and i am someone who is going to do very well at life. However, it just hurts that i always get overlooked in social circles where the bigger guys can dominate with their size. Whenever i speak up etc it just looks like short mans syndrome. I am a virgin too at 20 years old which makes me feel terrible when i hear of what guys my age are doing. I just really need help.

I just want to be confident as this is the part of my life which is lacking.

All I can say on this is that I have a short friend who had a hot bisexual girlfriend who brought him other women for 3somes on a regular basis. he is not rich either. He kept her on a short leash and he wore the pants. They broke up but they were together for years.

How do i develop that aura of being, basically, a baller? (its ok when i'm with guys)
I think that is what is missing, i am missing it badly when i'm with women.


I have everything going for me except this, i want to be able to make a woman feel even intimidated in being attracted because of what i have going for me.

From the way you talked, I thought you were like 4 feet tall. 5'7" is a fine height. There are plenty of women that are shorter than you. Women don't just go for guys that are taller, that's just your insecurity looking for an excuse not to be liked. I'm fucking tall and I still have to come to these forums and work my ass off to set myself apart.

You know what's good about being shorter? You will pack on muscles like nothing. Taller guys have to work a fuck of a lot harder for the mass you'll be able to get. You'll also be good at Judo. This is who you are, buddy, you better learn to fucking love it, otherwise how will you expect other people to? How tall is Tom Cruise, one of the pinnacles of alphaness? He's your height and so is Style, so stop your crying. At least you aren't inbred, missing an arm, etc.

I agree height is an issue and you have to work harder at your game to make up for it. I'm 5 10 and i want to be taller(6+) for various reasons not just for getting girls(statistics show the taller you are the more money you make).

Since you can't change your height you have to work with what you got.
My advice you said your going to a prestigious school so work hard at being financially successful for yourself. Once women know you have social skills, intelligence and ambition they are going to want your genes.

Also I think Mark Wahlberg is 5 7

read double your dating by david deangelo
mystery himself is 6'5 and was a virgin till he was 21 and obviously needed some help; it may seem like the tall guys have it easy but that's not the case. don't build up a small man syndrome either, nobody likes that

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I dated a girl who was about 15 cm/6 inches taller than me once and what I did was that I made fun of her height(in a playful way) and the effect was that her view of us two was that she was long instead of focusing on me being short...

Chyeah dude your good im like 5'8'' or 5'9''.

You have to stick around this place so we all can help each other out in this Game.

Get some books, download podcasts and make sure you follow whats going on in those materials. I guarantee you will improve your game. I have been doing just that and I've definitely gotten better at it!

Also, I got you beat homie I'm 21 ( if you catch my drift...{{yeah yeah im working on it guys cut a man a break}}...)

don't sweat it, even if we do chuckle at you we obviously understand it at the same time, otherwise I doubt we'd be here

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First psyche you need to implement is:

The reason the taller guys are getting the girls is not because they are taller. I am about your height. A friend of mine who is 6ft+ and a model once said to me at the jol (Jol is slang for party/club) that I am the only guy he feels threatened by. (When competing for girls that is).

Now I am not going to take credit for what I am about to say because I read it somewhere and to be perfectly honest, I do not see my height as a disadvantage. However, after reading it I will be implementing it just to give myself that added edge:

When you are walking through a crowd, avoid walking through tall groups of people. When you approach the girl you are gunning for, make sure she isn't standing next to someone taller.

That is the second best piece advice I can give you, second to telling you that the only reason why your height is affecting your game is because your are letting it.

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I'm 5'7 too - I usually joke with girls about their height (neg about heels and how shes very tall, with the aim of getting her to reveal her 'real height' by dropping a heel or whatever).

I think it's only an issue for A1 and maybe A2, but again - a lot of it is just in the mind.

Oh, I meant to mention. Back when I first heard about game, my role model was this dwarfish guy with a beer gut because he always had an alpha frame. He's a good six inches shorter than me, but I look up to him, game-wise anyway.