Are we supposed to do this? I'm guessing no, because nobody here says they're a 3 or whatever when telling their stories. But Dr. Drew was talking to a guy that rated himself a 6 and was dating a 10 and Dr. Drew pretty much said, you're doomed, you can't go up more than 2. That and I saw She's Out of My League the other day. Rating men is gay and makes me mad. But is it valid?

If I would rate you, would that mean I'd love to put my dick in your arse?

Of course rating is not bad.

And what is a number based on anyway? It's relative. I mean the 10's I find SUPER attractive might be 5's for a mate of mine and vica versa.

Game is all about picking up the girls that YOU like and by making them fall in love with you. Finding you attractive.

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Hi, I need your female opinion on this...

The fact is, that rating heterosexual men is just a useless exercise. Women don't usually give a shit about a guy's looks. That's the God-honest truth.

Women care about three things:

1. Confidence (the most important of them all)
2. Power (that's why managers and supervisors get laid)
3. Security (sometimes translates into money, or financial security, but physical security is important, too)

I see really unattractive guys with really hot girls all the time, but usually not the other way around, right? You don't see really gorgeous men with ugly fat chicks. It just doesn't happen.

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Marie
I married my PUA!

You make good points Marie, but that's more value game... A girl can be attracted to that guy even if he lacks those traits (though I admit probably not the confidence one).

Anyway, only time you rate a guy is when you rate yourself. And if you're doing it right, you should be a ten.

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Don't hate, just dominate.

I agree with everything MariePivot said.

Anyway, only time you rate a guy is when you rate yourself. And if you're doing it right, you should be a ten.

I couldn't agree more with AFC royal. Seriously, a guy can be ugly, in a wheelchair, short, whatever-- if HE thinks he is a ten, then we (women) will think He's a ten, too.

Believe me; I've dated all kinds, and it was never about looks, or even money. (Although honestly, I have always had a good job, and I never dated some guy who was unemployed. But I never really cared as long as he was working).

You've got to bring confidence. I've dated really gorgeous guys that were pussies-- crying all the time, or afraid of their parents, or asking dumb shit like, "do you really like me, really... please?"

Don't get me wrong, if your dog died, it's okay for a man to cry. But it's not okay to cry like a baby every single day. Or if your basketball team lost. Or if you got an "F" on your test.

That shit gets old quick.

Fact is, WOMEN want to be the crybabies. We're women. That's just our chemistry.

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Marie
I married my PUA!